Help Chie Blumenthal

upate , 12-14-2009

2009-12-14T20:36:00.001-06:00

Hello Everybody,,, Wanted to update anyone , who may actually read this. I know its been sproradic lately, the updates, but its just really emotional for me to do it right now. Its the holidays and that is always a tough time, especially when you are broke and alone, lol. Anyways, Sorry for the inconvenience.

Chie has been in very good spirits the last few times I have spoken with her!! We were able to speak on the webcam and I could snap a picture of her to show you. She also sent me a picture yesterday via her phone. She has been in pretty good spirits and generally seems happy. She continues at here rehab and is working hard everyday. She told me she was practicing standing in her room the other day. I am not sure if she was supposed to be doing that or not, she would not say even if she wasn't, lol.

Her friends seem to be visiting pretty regularly on the weekends so that is good. We thank everyone who continues to support her and visit her. It does mean a lot to her. She got to go shopping yesterday!! I know she enjoyed that. I wonder if she spent hours searching for a 5 dollar work shirt like she used to? And she wondered why I didnt want to go, lol.

She recieved many cards she said from the kids!!! Thanks a lot for those , especially to those of you out in the Ft. Worth crew. Hope to see you again soon. She really enjoyed reading them and to those of you who have emailed her too, if she doesnt email back, she probably just got distracted. Keep sending those emails, she will get back to ya!!!

She has been bothered by the fact that everyone keeps telling her its cold and she should wear a long sleeve shirt!!! Due to her injury , the hypothalamus was injured and it regulates her body temperature, so she does not feel cold nor does she want to wear a long sleeve shirt. Finally, she succumbed to the pressre and began wearing one two weeks ago. She said, , im not cold, but have on a long sleeve shirt cause everyone said I should wear one." It was very cute.

She said she was gaining weight too. I told her that it was ok, she is still the most beautiful girl i have ever seen. She has gained , about 8 kilos!!! That would put her way on up around 130 lbs. I think is much much too heavy, but I dont know what they think over in Japan. I know she got up around that weight when were were in the rehab and I about died!!1 She had a beer belly like mine and if you remember, that is when we made our plea for Japanese food, which you all so graciously provided, and she dropped that weight in no time. Chie had never weighed over 110lbs in her life before the accident. I was worried the wieght may hinder her recovery since she wasnt used to hauling that much body weight. Now , she is in japan, on her native diet, and gaining weight so I dont know what to say or do about that. Strangey!!

She said she will not be able to come home again until next year. I am hoping I can get the family to tell me when and we can have people come over to chat with her on the webcam so that she can see everyone . She misses you all so very much and longs to return to dallas.

As always , we thank you soooooo much

2009-11-26T10:21:00.000-06:00

Happy Thanksgiving

We sincerely thank everybody for all they have done to help us through our hard times. Chie has come farther than we ever could have expected and is still working hard everyday to better herself. We want to say thank you for the life you have given back to her. Without your support, Chie, no doubt, would not be where she is today. We are forever greatful and in your debts.

Thank You

and

Have a Happy Thanksgiving

2009-11-10T16:55:00.002-06:00

Well, It has been a while since I ve updated Chie 's blog. Im not sure if anyone reads this anyways, but it was just too emotional for me to keep it up for a while there. Chie is doing well. She remains in the rehab, where it looks like she will stay for a while, until her mother is out of the house. Chie doesnt seem to mind too much though, as her house is too smaill for her to move around in and there is not much for her to do there. She has been able to go home for the weekend about two or three weeks ago and she enjoyed that very much!!! We spoke on the webcams and she seemed like she was just fine.
She got a new watch to help her tell time and recently got her hair cut. She said she has a new wheelchair too!!!! Things sound like she is doing good. She has made a new friend who she enjoys spending time with. Chie said her friend helps her out very much. Im happy for her. I hope she is happy too.
She got to go to the park with her friend Akiko last saturday,, thanks so much for taking her.
The weather was nice and she enjoyed every second of the visit!!
Thats about it for now,

2009-09-14T17:43:00.005-05:00

Hanging In There

I have continued to speak to Chie every week and have emailed her every few days letting her know that she can do it!! and that she is the best! Just letting her know that she is loved and missed. She is trying very hard to fight and stay positive but it is hard she said.

She is so greatful for those of you who have visited. It just means so much to her. She feels very very lonely and VERY BORED. She said some people visited for an hour or so, but that she is stuck there all day and night and nothing to do.

I know our friend did get to see Chie on the weekend and took her to the beach. Thank you so much!!! Chie had such a good time. It was her first time to leave the hospital in forever. She was just telling me how people talked about the weather, but it did not even matter to her, because she never has been out of the hospital. It made her feel so good, she said the smell was SEA, and it smelled good. THANK YOU!!!! She told me all about it and how much fun she had.

She was supposed to be going home for a night. I thought it was great that she is going to do it. She said it was because she had to go and see her doctor. Hopefully she will tell her family that she wants to go home on the weekends and can do some more things with her family or friends.

Her watch is broken, that is the reason she cannot tell time right now. I hope she will get a new one soon. I have told her family and hopefully they will get it repaired. It can be scary for her without any way of knowing where she is, what time or day it is, and without her memory, it is frightening for her. She said that nobody had cleaned her ears and she needed to shave under her arms. lol, she wasnt sure who was going to cut her toe and finger nails. I dont know if anyone at the hospital does this or not. They did not here in Dallas and I have always done it for her. I emailed the family to let them know and hope they will help her. Also, she is worried about her english and wants to speak with somebody in english. I have friends that are supposed to visit and call , but they have not yet. If anyone would like to help with that please let me know , 469 363 6611

I hope she is fine and doing ok, I miss her dearly and it has been so difficult to adjust to her not being with me. I guess when you love somebody you will always keep them in your heart. She said hello to everyone in Dallas and she misses Dallas and wants to come home. It just makes me so sad and breaks my heart to think that she is forgotten about. I hope she isnt. I know she is strong and will do well but its just hard to be away from her and not know how she is. I miss her so much, today especially.

Happy nneversary Chie,, I love you

DAVE

2009-08-30T10:23:00.001-05:00

Chie Update

Well, I have spoken to Chie several times. She has instructed me to call her every Saturday night, Sunday morning for her, so that's just what I do.

She has been in very good spirits the last two weeks. She was very cute as she explained about her rehab. She explained about how she is worried about forgetting English. Everybody speaks Japanese at her rehab. She wants to speak to people in English to help her from forgetting. I have some friends who will be calling soon to talk with her. If anyone would like to chat with Chie on the phone please feel free to contact me 469 363 6611, and i can get you the number.

She likes the food they have been serving, its all japanese. She has had tempura, mobotofu, curry rice, and many more. NO complaints about the food.

She was very cute as she explained how she wanted to come home to Dallas, she doesnt like the fact that she must be polite to everyone there, LOL. Its been hard to make friends there for her she said but she thinks there is a new girl she may be able to make friends with.

She doesnt think that she is getting enough therapy. Its not long enough for her and she only sees her teacher twice a week. She has 15 people per class and she doesn't like that much because she doesnt receive good therapy or much attention.

Sadly, she called yesterday and felt like she was in trouble because nobody comes to see her anymore. She said she was just so bored and had nothing to do and nobody to talk to. I tried to give her a couple of phone numbers to our friends so she could call them and say hello. She understands that her therapy facility is far from all of her friends but that she was just so bored she didnt know what to do, and she felt like she was in trouble. She couldnt even remember what day it was she told me and that frustrated her. I guess she feels like she is just forgotten about and has no bearing on time anymore or days. She has nothing to look forward to right now as nobody comes or takes her out. She I dont believe has even been home yet on the weekend. Maybe I spoiled her trying to do so much with her or maybe its just a cultural difference and she needs to toughen up, I dont really know. I just hate to think of her being forgotten and feeling so lost.

She called back and said she had decided that she would like to try and read a book, maybe on with big letters or just not too small so she could read it with her magnifying glass. I ask what kind of book she would like to read and she decided she would like a comedy or something funny so she could feel happy again.

Thats about it for right now, She misses everyone here in Dallas very much and she really wants to come home. She said hi to UDONCHAN and sends her love to everyone here.

TAke Care,

2009-08-11T02:51:00.003-05:00

Spoke To Chie on the phone!!!!! She seems to be doing ok. She has moved to her new rehab facility. She says it is small but she gets more therapy hours than she did at Kansai Rehab, so she is happy about that.
Chie said she felt a little alone because she was so far away from her friends and family now and that they could not visit as much. She vowed to stay strong and work hard on getting better while she remains there!!! She has been practicing her walker more and more to strengthen up her legs.
She wanted to say hello to everyone back in Dallas and say that she really misses you all and wants to come home and see you when she finishes up. Im sure she would love to get a card or visit from anyone right now, so if you are interested in helping boost her spirits please send them to the address in the previous post.
I only got to speak ot her briefly so didnt get all the details yet. I will post her updates just as soon as I get them.
Thanks.
D

Chie Update 7-2009 Kansai Rehab

2009-07-02T13:17:00.002-05:00

! ! ! Recovery Still in Progress ! ! !

I just received word that Chie is doing well and continuing to make progress everyday at Kansai Rehab near her house in Toyonaka!

I had three reports from friends who had all been to see Chie recently. Thank you so much for visiting Chie. I know it makes her so happy and good to have someone visit her. It gets a little lonely at the hospital or rehab without friends and loved ones around. It also helps me and everyone else feel better to hear that she is doing ok.

She has been at Kansai rehab for almost two months now. She is beginning to use her walker now with confidence. She is happy to not be stuck in that chair all the time. She will finish up at Kansai rehab in about two weeks and she will then move to another rehab in Akashi. She said she can stay at that rehab a long time, but she feels like, until February, March, or April will be long enough for her. Then she will be ready for me to come and get her. She misses all her friends here in America and wants to come home and see them, and of course, UDon!!!. Udon misses Chie soooooo Muuuuucccchhhh too!!!!!!

GOOD TIME FOR A CARD OF ENCOURAGEMENT!!!!

I know this is a really hard time for Chie right now. She does not have me around to take her out to do things anymore and Im sure she gets lonely without many visitors coming to see her. We do thank all of you who have been to see her so much, so I was thinking now might be a really good time to send her a card to help encourage her and let her know her friends are thinking about her. You can send any letters or cards to her parents address in Japan and I am sure they will take them to her.

Please send cards to :

Shirafuji Chie

560-0025

Osaka, Toyonaka-shi

Tachibana-cho 3-15-18

Japan

THANK YOU ALL SO MUCH FOR YOUR SUPPORT

HIGHLIGHTS FROM JAPAN

2009-06-13T16:34:00.007-05:00

Highlights from Japan

We got all packed and ready to go. Chie got to go shopping at Macy's to buy new clothes for the big trip!!!! We did the laundry and got our suitcases packed!! Finally, we were set! The flight went really well. We didnt have any problems at all. The people from American and JAL were great meeting us at our transfer and getting chie on and off the plane. We also would like to thank Nana from IACE travel for hooking us up with such a great flight.

When we made it back to Japan, we were greeted by her father and brother. It was great to see them again. It has been 4 years since Chie has been home to see her family and we thank you all for helping make it possible. Chie's mother looked pretty laying in her bed, but our hearts broke to see her in such condition. She is suffering from Parkinson's and can no longer move or speak. They say she can uderstand what is being said so we were happy for her to hear her daughter's voice, know that she was home, and loves her mother.

It wasnt long before Chie settled into her old home. It was kind of hard to maneuver around but Chie managed pretty well. She loved having her old favorite foods. It wasnt long until things were almost back to normal. Chie's father picking at every detail, Chie doing the same until she finally said, "I gotta get out of here. He's driving me crazy!!" It was of course in a loving way and I explained that, thats why they call them parents and not homies!

Despite being asked not to go outside, I tried to take Chie out for walks and to the park or store. We tried to do a lot in the little time we had. I have included the pictures for everyone. We went to Banpaku koen for hanami and to see the tulips. We spent a day on Maishima Sports Island at the Nagisa music festival. Chie had a ball there!! It was an all day techno / drum and bass festival. She even got and danced for a little while!!!! We went with old friends Joe and Kyle and Maki. We stayed all day and had a lot of fun as I am sure you can tell by the smile on Chie's face! We went to kobe to see old coworkers and our friend's bar ragtime. She went to Awaji shima with Momoyo and Kazu and saw the Akashi Ohashi. It was a lot of fun for her I believe.

Chie went to be examined by the doctors and she received her disability card from the government. She was accepted into Kansai Rehabilitation and will work there for two months. Afterwards, she will be going to Akashi to a rehab for continued therapy. I am not sure how long she will stay there. We told her that she had graduated past me and was to continue working on her own. I believe she must stay in japan to further progress. Now , she can focus on building her mind without translating. She had begun to plateau here, plus we had exhausted all of our resources. We had no more therapy left, no more money, and nobody to watch after her in the day time. I had to take medical leave from work in february as everything became too much for me to handle. I guess it all caught up to me, the strain and stress of the last 3 years. Now Chie is in a safe place with her family and friends. I on the other hand am pouring tears, missing Chie, alone and wondering if I can put this life back together.

I am hoping the family will keep me up to date on Chie's progress and I can in turn report it back to you. We love you all and thank you for making her recovery such a miracle.

2009-04-15T20:14:00.002-05:00

Iterashaimase

Back in japan after a long time away. Chie is doing well here in Japana and happy to see her mother. Her mother cannot speak anymore and is bedridden with a feeding tube in place to eat, but she is alive and I am sure happy to hear Chies voice.
I cannot thank all of her supporters for helping to get her home to see her mother while she is still here with us. I could never have lived it down had we not made it in time for her to see her. Chie holds her mother in the highest regard and the one person she love and respects the most. It was on my mind constantly as we prepared for this trip and with all of your help we made it. I know to some it may not make sense but to others it does. In learning the Japanese culture as I am sure I have said before, they put their parents up there next to God and nothing else could explain it.
We are adjusting to the life here. Chie seems to be making the adjustment well, while I ,, well I am struggling. Its very small, is about all I can say. Spoiled, I guess I have been to bathrooms where more than One person can fit. My Japanese is rusty but managing to understand 20 percents and able to read the conversations anoth10 or 20, not that that maatters much to her father who speaks to me as if I was fluent and have lived here for 30 years. Instead of watchiing Yoshimoto Shinkigeki , I wake up every morning to *Shirafuji Shinkigeki* and can hardly stop smiling and laughing enough to communicate with anyone anyways.
There is not much for me to do here so I have just been spending days scouting out the trains and trainstops for handicap accessibility and bathrooms so that I can safely take Chie out for some site seeing or something in the near future. Its not so disabled friendly as the states but I am really impressed with some of the upgrades they have made towards that area. I should be able to get Chie out and about soon.
We did get to see some cherry blossoms before they went away and that was important for Chie and I both. JoJo is heree and helping me out. Good to see him and Yoshiko both and baby FIFI. Joe has one more on the way coming this august so I am hoping to steal him away for a vacation before he has his feet planted for the next 18 years. We are planning our proposal to the dear sweet , kiind , understanding , great , terrific , besst, ichiban Yoshiko at the moment. I hope she says YES!!! Iwill let everyone know
Yoshiko Danjo!!!!! Pleasse contact Mikio for us , we saw a very bad picture of Daisuke holding his shoulder and it not make us very happy. We hope he is ok and send our love to him and you all ,
We will try to keep this updated as much as possible for everyone, sorry no pictures,, I havent found my camera yet. Ithink it is somewhere in one of my bags , Ill findi t soon though , so keep checking back,
lots of love
DAVE

2009-04-01T01:52:00.000-05:00

2009-03-17T18:53:00.004-05:00

Benefit Concert Pictures!!

It was such a beautiful night , we thank all of you so much for all you help and support.

2009-03-01T07:51:00.002-06:00

THANK YOU

FOR A

WONDERFUL NIGHT

We have finallly learned how to put the video on here and so Chie wanted to tell everyone thank you for such a wonderful evening. It took many takes for her to get this down. She was so overwhelmed that she could not put into words her feelings.

Thank you all,

2 Weeks To Go

2009-02-14T19:47:00.011-06:00

Two Weeks To G0

and

Chie is getting excited! ! !

Chie is getting really excited about the upcoming piano concert!!! It was a couple of weeks ago that we had the pleasure of meeting and playing with the star performers, Yoko Unno, Yoko Black, and Mr. Nielson, as well as, Ms. Eva Gay Brown, Akiko Walker, and Ms. Yasuko Tachibana who are coordinating, organizing, and doing everything else to make this a success!

Chie is so excited about the upcoming concert thanks to our inspirational rehersal we had the other night. Chie is still quite motivated and has been practicing, not only at home, but has her keyboard set up at rehab and has been playing for her friends there too. I know I wrote about it shortly afterwards but wanted to share the pictures with everyone as well because you can really see the joy you all brought to Chie's face.

Let me first demonstrate her practices prior to our meeting;

Exhibit A

and then with the pianists,

I think she made a friend.

Thank you

thanks

2009-02-05T00:24:00.003-06:00

We want to thank all those contributing kindness to Chie recently. We thank you folks so much for your help. We have seen new support come in from all over the United States, all the way from NE , PA to California. It could not have come at more needed time. I have a feeling much of that love came a little place on Shadybrook. Thank you for putting the word out.

Youre a legend ,,

cheers, to you all

and

we hope to see you as many of you as possible at the benefit concert!!

2009-01-31T16:49:00.012-06:00

Chie takes back the piano with,

Hosted by International Music Friends,

two of the groups co-founders,

Yoko Black and Yoko Unno

will be performing as a duo for this special Occassion.

Chie,

will return to the piano for her first public performance since her accident accompanied by

Special Guest

The ever so delightful ...

Mr. Stephen Nielson

This unique group of talented musicians are joining forces for one night

in an effort to raise support

for Chie's cause

To be honest, I am very suprised!! However, I am getting ready.

The other day , my piano was tuned and Mr. Nielson came and ,,,It was soooo nice!! I t was excellent! He makes me so sunny. I am so jealous, the double Yokos are learning from Mr. Nielson.

I appreciate Ms. Eva Gay Brown, that was so nice of her to come and listen to my piano.

I could not use my left hand as I once had, but I was inspired by Mr. Nielson masterful touch of the ivories, allowing them to speak to me the feelings and emotions of the music I once played.

I want to be able to succeed on the 27th.

I want to smile on the that day."

After almost 3 years of day in, day out rehabilitation of nothing but hardwork and determination trying to recover a life she once had, she is now set to discharge from rehabilitation.
Her biggest battle throughout this whole ordeal was dealing with the fact that she was unable to leave therapy to return home and see her mother who has been suffering from Parkinson's Disease and was recently hospitalized four months ago. Chie desired to be with her mother always but could not halt therapy without loss of coverage.
Chie has not received any support from neither the U.S. nor Japanese governments. Now, with her mother's health taking a turn for the worse, She and her husband must return to Japan to be examined by their doctor in person and to aid her mother in her struggle.
All offerings of support will go to help her get home and see to her mothers health as well as, Prepare for her next stage of recovery at home alone and without all the therapists supervison and aid.

Christmas Thank You

2008-12-22T12:13:00.000-06:00

Friends,
I have been filling out Christmas cards for a month and if I may, I would like to take this opportunity to say to you all:
We would like to thank you all for you continued support in helping make Chie's recovery a success. She continues to move forward with the start of each new day, waking up in a happy cheerful positive light despite her condition. Left only with what her Japanese upbringing instilled in her, Chie remains focussed on her goal to one day walk again and will not give up. She simply does not know how to give up. It is just not in her blood.

She is truely an extraordinary person and she means the world to me. So, I say to you in my deepest sincerity, Thank You for welcoming us into you group of friends and treating us so graciously. For the smiles you put on Chie's face, for the love you give out, to see her stand up and announce to those who ran the marathon, that she would be in next year's race. ... to see that confidence and feeling of comfort and acceptance in her eyes. You will never know how much it means to her, or me. Its not something you cannot buy in a store. There is no amount of money in the world that could do what you people have done for her, and I , , I just thank you all so much from the bottom of my heart,
I thank you.

We wish you all a Merry Christmas and a Prosperous New Year.

DAVE

I love Udon

2008-12-17T22:40:00.000-06:00

Hello Everybody,
Its Chie and I just wanted to tell you about my dog, Udon. She is a very good girl. She is getting bigger and bigger. We fight sometimes , but Istill love her. She sleeps lateer than me. David and I get up and Udon still lays in bed, sleeeping. But she is good girl though. She seems like she listens to me and uderstands me . I dont know if its true or not. Isnt that very strange?? I think so very much. And udon is a lab, and nobody thinks she is a real lab. , except the vet.
I just wanted to tell you that. Ill talk to you soon ,
CHIE

The Grinch Who Stole Christmas!!

2008-12-14T02:25:00.000-06:00

The Grinch Who Stole Christmas

A Holiday Parade

starring CHIE

as The GRINCH

Staying busy as usual Chie was the star of the parade hosted by her rehab. We were all very excited about it. She put a lot of thought into her part. She watched "How the Grinch Stole Christmas" at rehab and really enjoyed it. Then she had to study it and really pay attention to the detail, such as her face in these pictures.

She really went all out choosing her green outfit to wear and making sure she had found someone who would loan her a hat. Her lead therapist had the dog and 1 antler so they were ready to go!!

Everyone from the rehab went out to Anna Texas to their ranch there and took part in or watched the parade. Chie had a ball!! She was so excited and happy. I wish I could have been there to see her, but unfortunately I had to go have CT scans done for that kidney stone that rendered me out of commission a few weeks back. She said they had a great time out at the ranch. They had a good lunch and the parade was SSSUUUUUGGGOOOOIIII!!!!!!

Thank you to whoever got the pictures for us. We aprreciate that very much. Im sorry its just now to get them posted, but busy as usual.

Thank you to all who make it possible

Chie's Thanksgiving Message

2008-11-30T16:22:00.000-06:00

Chie's Thanksgiving Video Message

Happy Thanksgiving

2008-11-26T13:21:00.000-06:00

HAPPY THANKSGIVING

We would like to wish everyone a very Happy Thanksgiving. We hope you all enjoy lots of turkey with family and friends.

I have always loved the holiday season so much. Turkey, Family, Friends, The Cowboys, Christmas Lights, Cards, Presents, Holiday Cheer, and the Chance of it Snowing. It was always such a happy time in my life and my memories. Buying presents and suprising people with something they really wanted. The holiday cheer that made me always want to do a little something extra for somebody in need like, donating gifts or old coats to those who did not have one. I took such pride in that and that of my Nana, because my mom always told me how my Nana, Dad's mother, would go to the store and pick out a cart of food and a turkey. Then she would tell the guy who worked there to make up 6 more of just what she had chosen. She would go and put them on the porches of those in need just before Christmas. I asked if she knew the people she gave them to and my Mom said that she did not and she never left a card or anything. She never wanted them to know it was from her. I always thought that was so cool of her, and I always rememberred that and wanted to be like that.

I guess this is why I find it so hard to be in my position now. never really understood words like "need" and "want" for me personally. I could tell you what you needed or wanted and how you could get them, but I was ok, didnt really need anything. Even when I was out on my own at 18, I always worked or did something to make money. There was always a means to make the money and it all seemed so easy. I had never had to ask anyone for anything and so now, in the current sinkhole I find myself submerged in, it makes me terribly uncomfortable and weak. We just found out that social security has denied disability for Chie, and I am not thankful for that. We really needed that. So lost and helpless. I feel as though I am at the bottom of a well with water pouring in and I am trying to get climb out but just keep slipping back down. I just dont see any end to it, like there is no way of getting the upper hand back. We are going to be in this hole forever, makes me wanna scream!!!!

Thanksgiving was really just, Eat a ton of turkey and watch the Cowboys day. Never really thought to much about the "Thanks" part. I guess I kind of took it all for granted. Now, I look at the hole I am in and I know it doesn't seem like we have much to be thankful for, but we do. It is a real struggle to pull something positive out of this but I am trying hard, ,, to , ,,,, always look on the bright side of life, yes! It seems like we have more to be thankful for now than ever before. I guess it takes these hard times to build your character make you more weathered. We are thankful, thankful for every little thing right now. The list is a mile long and you, Chie supporters, doctors, therapists, are at the top. Helpless, embarrassed, humbled, sad, and Thankful!

Today that thankfullness is what is going to get me out of bed and make another go of things. I somehow have to find a way to say or show that we are thankful.

Happy Thanksgiving, and Thank you

Chie's Bazaar Benefit, ,,, is that right? Bazaar Benefit?

2008-11-18T00:58:00.000-06:00

A THOUSAND THANKS
TO THE
FT. WORTH JAPANESE SOCIETY

Raised: Over $1,300.00

We thank you from the bottom of our hearts and with our upmost sincerety. Chie came home beaming, excited, telling me about all the people she met, all the good foods she ate. She was just like a little kid in a candy store. It brought tears to my eyes listening to her. I was so proud her and all of you, Kaoru, and the Fort Worth Crew. Thank You, Thank You, Thank You, How could I ever thank you?

It all sounded so great. She was so happy to see so many of you after such a long time. I heard that so many people came. She forgot some of your names, but I told her it was ok. I think it was pretty much overload to try and retell it all at one time, so I am letting her give me little bits at a time as she sees fit and when it comes to her. It was a very big step for her to go without me, as we were all a little freaked out after Friday with the hospital and all. Plus the fact that when Chie left I was laying the bed begging for mercy, how embarrassing. I must thank Hiroe and Bobby for filling in and getting Chie there. Thanks A Million!

I wish I could have been there to see everyone. I am sorry I could not make it. I was extremely ill. I have a kidney stone and had to go to the hospital in the ambulance Friday. I dont know much about it aside from the fact that it is extremely painful. The doctor said it will pass, but it has not, as of today. Actually, I think his exact words when he woke me up were "We have a kidney stone. .5mm. They say this is the equivalent of a male giving birth. Its going to suck, but it will pass in the next few days, just drink a lot of liquids and rest. If it hasn't passed in the next few days go to your doctor. You can go home now." OK, so I staggered into the lobby, very groggy from the accidental double dose of morphine they gave me, looking for Bobby and Chie who were nowhere in sight. I made a quick call for them to come rescue me and went back to sleep on the chairs in the waiting room until they came and got me. Dazed and confused was the rest of that day. The next day was great until about 9:30 when I found myself doubled over hollaring at Chie to eat breakfast and getting her dressed, calling to find Bobby and and get him back to the house, printing directions to Ft. Worth since the internet decided to work for and hour ( Thank You God), Call Hiroe and let her know she was now driving, and let Hiroe know that Chie would be there , ,, late, but just a little late, you know, the usual lateness (heheehee). No, I dont think I even got to the part where I called Kaoru, by that time I was already confined to the bed telling Chie, " IM fine!!! Im just gonna nap and rest like the doctor said!!!!!!" It was horrible! Ladies , full respect to all you mothers out there. I dont even think I want kids anymore. I dont want anyone to go through that!! EVER!!!! It was baaaaaaaddddd, let me assure you. The last thing I rember was Bobby and Chie leaving for the bazzar and then Kevin bringing me a huge cup of water saying, "you need anything else. I got a huge cup of water right here for ya. It's got lots of ice in it, see" To which I replied, "Go AWAY!!"

Believe me, its hard to drink a lot of water when you know it will bring on so much pain. I was just stuck starring at that big glass of water. It was like a horror movie or something, just sitting there, starring at me. I have never not wanted water so much in my life and drank it like it was a shot of tequila or something; Those of you who know me, know how gracefully I do shots. NOt a pretty sight let me assure you.

The next morning I awoke to Chie telling about all the fun she had and how great it was.
I have to go back to the doctor in the morning to find out what is next. I hope it will be fine and will let you know. I was hoping it may have passed without me noticing ,, but Chie's driver assured me, "You'll know , You'll Know," so its back to the doctore in the morning.

Your efforts are truly amazing and we so greatly appreciate it. I was happy to hear about every one seeing and meeting Chie and Bobby and Hiroe. I was happy to hear that some of you actually got the cards I sent. I am so absent minded at this point I have no idea who I got them sent to and who I did not. I apologize if I missed you. Please let me know your address so I can send you a thank you. I am already working on cards from Saturday. I know some people have gotten several, probably all saying the same thing. I dont know how, but I know I have sent someone 3 already, and then, get this, I found another one about two months ago. I know its like a year and a half old. I could not bear to send a 4th, sorry. The ICC got a couple of those 8 to 12 month old cards that elusively slipped down the cushions of our couch. I am sorry y'all. It was by no means intentional. I would never deliberately display my idiocey. Hope you can forgive me.

Some of you may have mixed Bobby and myself up, but dont worry, it happens a lot. I still have the pictures of Chie and I singing Karaoke from the very first time we met at our friends birthday party in Kobe just before New Years, 2000. Chie sang Dancing Queen by ABBA and I sang Take a Walk on the Wild Side by Lou Reed. I will post them and let you know the story of how we met for those of you who do not know.

Guys, I have to go to bed. I, again, thank you with all my heart. You are our life line in this fight, without you we would be dead in the water. I am doing my best to take care of Chie but would be nothing without your support.

We love Ya,

2008-11-05T19:42:00.000-06:00

Japanese BBQ and the "Kaibutsu Ball"

Amazingly Chie gave a green light for a BBQ last Saturday, and we made it!!!

an hour and a half late but made it!

Chie had a really good time meeting everybody at the BBQ Saturday. We thank you all for inviting us. It was a pleasure to meet everyone and thank you for being so nice to both of us. It was a suprising to find out that some of you knew each other, so seeing you all together was strange for Chie and I. We thought, "what a small world! " We had not seen Mika in almost a year and a half! Good to see you again. It was a great day for us and nice to get out and enjoy the weather!

It was fun to kick the ball and play dodgeball. The food was oishii. We are still eating what you all gave us. Chie loved the cookies!!!!

It was a real honor for Chie to receive a ball from our Boston Red Sox Supporters Mikio and Daisuke, who signed a baseball to Chie. I think it only took about 3 minutes before she dropped it and we had it covered in BBQ sauce from the ribs while we snapped pictures of everyone in pitcher's poses and swinging the bat like we were sending it out of the park!!!! nah,, just kidding, ,,, kind of.

We greatly appreciate the support and thought that went into getting it to Chie. She felt very special. We spent the evening researching the Redsox and their Japanese Pitcher Daisuke "Kaibutsu" Matsuzaka. We hope to one day meet and thank you both in person. It was truly truly our honor to have been recognized by you.

A special special thanks to Yoshiko and Mikio for making it happen.

We love ya,

Chie and DAVE

2008-11-05T19:10:00.000-06:00

As you know, its been about 6 months since I have gotten Udon. Udon has been helping me very much. Without Udon, I don’t know if I can get up on time. Udon helps me o wear clothes and eat. I meet her in the kitchen and she is always ready to eat. She seems like a house dog. I am always surprised because she looks like a house dog, really. Udon is becoming bigger and bigger. Udon often sleeps in the bed with me. Recently, we have tried to practice Udon sleeping outside, but at night I get up to go to the bathroom and I see Udon, I call her and then see if she is sleeping. Then I go to let her in the door and she jumps in the bed with me, and I am secretly happy,heheheheheehehheheee. I come home around 4pm and Imake sure she is waiting for me at the door, and she is waiting for me. I don’t know how to tell you how happy I am to have Udon. I always thank Striper’s little girls for giving her to me because they are Udon’s real Mamma’s and Papa. Striper is a Fisherman at Texoma and we sometimes go there and we sometimes see the girls and they are very nice to us. If you go there, please ask them. You can find them at Texoma Outfitters --- --- ----. I really appreciate Striper and his little girls and as usual, Beautiful Bobby because Bobby takes care of Udon very well. Thank you so much. I really cannot say thank you enough. Finish
Chie

HAPPY HALLOWEEN!!!!

2008-11-04T21:50:00.001-06:00

HAPPY HALLOWEEN TO EVERYONE

TERRIBLY SORRY FOR THE LONG ABSENCE. MY JOB HAS CHANGED AS PART OF THE D.I.S.D. OVER EXPENDITURE AND I NOW FIND MYSELF IN A KINDERGARDEN TEACHER. THE TRANSITION HAS BEEN ROUGH TO SAY THE LEAST. KINDER TAKES MUCH PLANNING AND LOTS OF TIME. UNFORTUNATELY I HAVE NOT HAD ANY TIME TO SPARE.

WE HOPE EVERYONE HAD A GOOD HALLOWEEN!! CHIE WON THE FIRST PLACE IN HER REHAB'S HALLOWEEN COSTUME CONTEST!!!!! HOPE YOU LIKE THE PICTURES.

Otsukimi

2008-10-23T23:27:00.000-05:00

Otsukimi

Chie made it out to Otsukimi at the arboretum this year. It was a moist cool night and we looked up at the moon while listening to the Biwa music and acoustic jazz. We wrote haikus and sank a couple of beers. It was a really nice night to spend together. Thinking back at how far we have come and all we have been through in a year. It was a year ago that we raced in the car with Sheila, Keiko and Akiko trying to beat the moonrise. It was one of the very first times Chie had gone out since her accident. She has truly come a long way since then. Im very proud of her efforts, courage, and positive character that has kept not only her but me going too. I just love her with all my heart and hope to get her back somehow , someway to where she can be happy and content with her abilities.
So much has changed since then. Akiko has gone back to Japan and we miss her and her happy smilel. Her tasty pastries she would bring to Chie. We heard from her the other day and she wishes to be here as well. Keiko has just had twins and they are very cute. Omedeto Keiko and Rajit. We are here to help you with anything you may need. It was great to meet your families. Tell them we say hello and enjoyed visiting and eating the indian food. Hope your dad had a good flight home ,, and by now , your mom and sis' too. Chie has come home from rehab, changed rehabs, and she still keeps going. Good job lovey!!!

Chie's Message

2008-10-11T20:50:00.000-05:00

Blog

Thank you David,

David has been with me this accident. I do not know how much thank for him. I made him angry and upset, but he has been with me. Furthermore, he agreed to have Udon, ‘my lovely dog’ Now I cannot live without them,and plus Bobby. What a big family I am proud of.

Chie Update / Message

2008-10-11T15:32:00.000-05:00

Moving Right Along.....

Chie has continued therapy at her new place and she is doing very well. She really likes all of her therapists and new classmates. She has been working hard everyday with high hopes of recovery in her sights. We are going to be trying some new leg braces to see if we can get her foot working a little better to help her walk. Her goal is to walk one day and we have directed all of her therapist to put on as much muscle and flex as possible so that maybe before we leave she can accomplish her goal!

Recently Chie has had a lot of excitement in her life both at rehab and home. She has taken two outings at her rehab, no, 3 now! She has gone bowling, where in one frame she got a spare!! She said it was a lot of fun to bowl, but it was also a lot of work. She did not use her chair on that day and her therapists pushed her to work harder and harder. Next time she is going to try for a strike!!!!

Her last outing was a big one and she said she had a ball. She went to the Texas State Fair last Wednesday. She saw Big Tex and ate, ate, ate. They saw all the new cars. " Some people took pictures of the cars. They looked cool but I was thinking about food and I think thats about it. There was a big ride too. The big ride was a ferris wheel. I didnt go on it because I did not want to spend all of my money. I bought food. I bought two corny dogs, candy apple, funnel cake, and water. That was about 20 dollars. It was a beautiful day. At the end everyone was tired and they were like (she sighs). We couldnt do anything, we were too tired. But it was sosooooooooo fun!!!!! The next day I was not the only one who did not go to therapy. On Friday , I was the only one on my van to go to therapy. I guess everyone was tired. " It sounded like she had a ball and she definitely slept like she had a good time.

She recently had a few visitors who came to a BBQ at our house. We thank you for coming girls. Then she got to have a Girl's Day with her friend Saru. They went to the salon and had their nails done, eyebrows trimmed, and a fresh new haircut. Then we all had a big dinner and it was sooooo good. It was really a nice day for Chie and we thank you for taking the time to make her feel special.

We did get out to the ICC and were able to say hello and see everyong again. It was a wonderful lunch and we were happy to see old friends again. Anyways, it was so nice to see everyone again and we had a wonderful lunch and made new friends and saw baby Leo for the first time. Thank you all for having us we have missed you very much.

Our weekends have been a little busy as we are fighting with Nippon Life and their refusal to pay Chie's insurance claim. They are pretty much pretending they dont know Chie cannot walk, eat or dress by herself even though it was reported she could not by their representative. The doctor verbally communicated her situation with the rep. and then marked Chie discharge summary with the understanding everythig was with supervision. Nippon Life got the paper, looked at it, and just acted as if they had no knowledge of what was said about constant assistance and supervision, denied Chie's claim, and closed the case immediately. Absolutely dispicable!!! I do not know if they have "Bad Faith" laws in Japan, but they should.

Nippon Life, what a bunch of Schmucks.

OK, I must run for now and will update you again very soon.

Update: Getting Adjusted

2008-09-22T20:20:00.000-05:00

3 Weeks In and Getting Adjusted

Chie has finished 3 weeks of Pate and adjusting well. It has been a while since she has had such long days and she comes home worn out more days than not, but she smiles and says "That's Gooooood, That's Gooooood." She knows the more tired she is, the harder she has worked, and the better she will get!

Chie went bowling last week with everyone at the rehab. She got a spare!!! It would have been a strike but it came on her second bowl so it was a spare. Unfortunately my left arm is not really strong, so I had to use the ramp because my left arm is really week. I didnt think I would be able to complete one game, but it was very exciting and I did well. A lot of teachers helped me and I want to say, thank you so much. I really thank you. I could not do it without your help." "I remember some people went bowling at CNS and by some people, I guess people who can walk. " (Chie did not get to go on that outing) It was her first time after the accident. she played one game. "It was unbelievable and very fun,, ,,, It was very tiring to be honest,. I felt tired afterwords. I used the ball ramp to make sure the ball went straight." Chie used to bowl a little bit at Koshien Bowl back in Japan. She and I used to ride our bikes all the way from NishiKita to Koshien Bowl right next to Koshien Stadium. We heard Koshien Bowl has since been torn down, that is too bad. We will miss it.

Speaking of Koshien Stadium,,,,,,,,, We have learned that our home team The Hanshin Tigers

Now have the Magic Number and will make history again!!

We pray for the safety of all the Colonel Sanders Statues in Osaka and all the Tigers Fans at Dottombori Bridge. Wish we could be there. Gambattemasu!!!!!

Udon update!!!!

Udon has gotten all of her shots from the vet and Chie wants to say thank you for udon, because of her Chie can get up at 7am to feed her. She has been trying to learn the commands to help Udon behave well. She says she loves udon but sometimes she has to hit her. (LOL, I dont think so. In fact she doesnt even tell the dog to stop biting her when she wants to play.) She has done well making sure to feed her , right on time, and play with her and give her all the love a growing puppy needs. " I love you sssoooo much Udon." We have heard about a lady who works at a pet store and trains dogs for free for people in wheelchairs. We are going to try and make contact with her tomorrow and see if she may be able to help train Udon for Chie. It would be really great to have her trained well to help chie with so many of her difficulties in everyday life and if nothing else just to teach her not to bite chie's arm repeatedly until it bleeds. I dont know why but she never tells the dog, NO!! We will keep our fingers crossed that this new hope will help train Udon with us.

Chie has found new inspiration for rehab in a friend. She worries about his wellfare and future, so she feels she needs to be there everyday to support him through this difficult time. In return, he looks after her at rehab and makes sure she is always ok. Chie says " As a team, we can get over it. We can get over sad feelings , pain, and anything. Together." She tells him to be himself and that helps her feel better. She vows to help him with heart, "not money" she adds "because we dont have any, so heartwise." This must be a new term she has coined. " He must be really sad and I understand because I felt the same way, but dont be defeated because we are stronger. I love him very much. He has been looking out for me for a long time. He is my good friend. We ride to therapy together. Lets enjoy therapy together as long as we are here. Thank you"

Things are going pretty well for Chie at rehab so far. She has had no troubles with anyone about anything and that is just great. She comes home telling me " I was a wanted lady today!! I did not even get a chance to relax until 1 pm. I had appointment after appointment." I am so happy for her. We are modifying bras once again with velcro this time to see if that is a bit easier for her. She has retaken up trying use a button hook to button shirts. She is attempting to use the grabber, well not really, but we are hoping she will soon be attempting to use the grabber. She has used a new One Touch Can Opener to open cans for our dinner. I have found a voice recorder with only 3 buttons; Play, Record, and light, so we are trying to see if she can use that to help her remember tasks or topics she would like to do/discuss. We miss our second family from CNS very much, but perhaps this was a change she needed to boost her spirits and get her back into work mode.

LUNCH,, I know many of you want to know about lunch at the new place. Chie has lunch at 11am and we just learned that she does have a full hour to eat. If you would like to take her food I believe you just have to check in first at the office and all Japanese food is welcome!!!!

UPCOMING NEWS-

Chie will soon see our ataxia doctor about her shaking and tremors as they are again agitating her. We hope to find something that will calm them down and give her some relief. The eye doctor or low vision specialist will be sought out since our previous one is not currently seeing patients. We will again see if we can get her vision a little better than what it is now as it constantly bothers her. I do not know if it is due to her fatigue or dirty glasses from the dog licking them, but she complains a lot about not being able to see well. We will have a home evaluation tomorrow to see if we can better prepare the home to be more "Chie Friendly." She has only fallen once in recent weeks, but is getting more and more bold, so we must be on constant watch to prevent her from taking a spill. Decifering between safe and dangerous is one of her major faults after the accident so we really have to watch her when she begins to get fatigued. She recently learned that her friend takes naps everyday when he is tired and I hope this will encourage her to do the same. She did not fight to stay up over the weekend after learning this, so that is good.

Recent Doctor Visit-

We were able to see the dentist finally. Chie had complained about her teeth being sensitive to hot and cold things, so we put the dentist on the schedule. I cringed when she told me, remembering her in the hospital. She had not had her teeth or the inside of her mouth cleaned in over five weeks when I saw what I thought was her tooth come out of her mouth when the nurse was brushing the outside. I thought , "OH MY GOD, her teeth are rotting out!!!!" The nurse told me it was dried saliva and that nobody brushed the inside of her mouth because she would bite down when they tried. I was shocked to think that her teeth had not been brushed in 5 weeks!!! Chie had just woken up and was not speaking yet. I came in the very next day and told her that she had beautiful teeth and we needed to keep those pearly whites white. She would soon be talking and eating again so we had to get them cleaned up and ready. I told her that we had work to do. We could go slow and we could take breaks, but now it was time to go to work. Open up! She opened her mouth for me and to work I went. It was a pretty horrid sight as her mouth was coated and looked like a scab. I tried softening it up with a liquid the nurses used and then tried in whatever way I could to get that gook off, at time sticking my fingers in her mouth and literally pulling it off leaving her bleeding a bit. The nurse watched one time and saw me do it. He stepped back and said I was a braver man than he. We got it done though, after 3 days and a total of 6 hours!!!!! She only bit once and released promptly as I screamed under my breathe "iiiiiIIIIITTTTTAAAAAIIIIIIII!!!!!!!!!" Anyways, the dentist said she was right and was missing a layer of her filling, so he fixed her up and got them clean and beautiful again for her. I too had no cavities, but have to go back for second cleaning. Apparantly, once every 9 years is not quite the frequency the dentist would like to see his patients. Amazingly, no cavities!!

Dr. Cannada, the great Dr. Cannada. We made our final visit to our orthopedic surgeon who straightened out all of Chie's twisted bones over the last two years. We thank you a thousand times over for all your work and all the hope you gave us. Most of all, we will miss your big smile you always had when you came into our room, "There he is, I was just talking about you." She would tell me every time she came in. She always told me I should be Oprah's husband of the year. Well, I never made that but I did try my best. Thank you Dr. Cannada, for fixing my wife's bones. We're gonna miss you.

We are still surviving at home. I have had our mortgage put on automatic pay so we dont get foreclosed on. I figure if we start losing things, the house is one that we want to go last, lol. Fortunately Bobby has been staying and helping us in every way possible. We are very greatful for not only his, but everyone's help. The gift cards, the borrowing of the juicer (Chie really likes the juicer, probably be best to sneak it out when she is not looking, hehehehe), the late night swims, the tiramisu, the mending and on and on the list goes. It has been such a long and hard struggle for us. I go to bed every night and hope to wake up the next morning and everything will be back to normal, but it's not. -that sucks.

I gotta go ,

Thanks again,

2008-09-11T21:33:00.000-05:00

Excited About Rehab!!!

from Chie;

"I first want to thank Margo. Thank you very much for margo
because she found the best place for me. Without her, I wouldn't have known this place and I wouldn't have met nice friends and nice teachers. Today I had a family conference for the first time, and what was funny was the PT teacher, she said, "Bitchcakes!" I was very suprised because at CNS nobody would have said that, but here PT teacher said that. I heard it , you heard it (David), and everybody heard it and it was funny!" I like PT teacher and I like OT teacher, and well, when I talk about it I like everyone. I like speech teacher. Conference was good because six months is my limit but the lady said it isn't decided yet.
My new rehab is different from my old rehab. I have more free time, but also more responsibility. That is what the require from you. Do you know why? Maybe I should give you example, You can do anything, you can sleep if not appointment time. You can really sleep. Or, you can talk, you can play game or you can read comics if you have or if you want to. Nobody really checks. Responsibility comes when teacher comes to you and educates you. You cannot say "Im tired" because you dont want to go, which hasn't happened but you cant say it.
At 3:00pm I like to go to the big room and discuss current topics. Sometimes I listen only, sometimes I talk. Its everyday, we talk about recent things and that is good for us. Sometimes its brain training. Not only brain but also thinking in different ways. I like that.
One day seems shorter. Everyday seems shorter somehow. It is a little shorter but I think I learn the same, I guess. My leg is getting strong, but this is just starting training, so I think it is going to get even stronger. I dont know if half a year is enough but I will try.
Tomorrow I am going bowling and I am excited about that. My friend Kevin from CNS came to my new rehab and I was sooooooo Happy to have a friend there. I have met many friends but he is my old friend and he moved near my house so we can hang out sometimes. My lunch buddy is a new friend. He is an american guy but like an australian native but he looks like and aborigini. Of course I didnt ask but I thought he was aboriginal.
One more thing is my new driver Issetta. She always gives me a ride and she always takes me home and I feel safe. I thank her for that. Oh and Margarita is myneighbor at the desk next to me. I dont know how old she is but she is my neighbor. She is very nice. I like her.
Thats about it. Im sleepy
goodnight,
Chie

Back to Rehab!!!

2008-08-31T13:22:00.000-05:00

BACK TO REHAB

WELL, It looks like summer is over for Chie too. We received a call the other day that informed us all the paper work was complete and in order, so we are set to begin at Pate Rehabilitation on Tuesday the 2nd, YEA!!!! It kind of caught us off guard with school just starting, the party, setting up a home therapy routine for Chie etc.... We have been saying September 1st is when the funds will be dispursed and we are at the top of the list, but we did not know at what speed the process would move from when the funds were given out. We had heard some horror stories of people having to wait more than a month. We had some other distractions that kept us from realizing , its September already!

We are very happy to have been able to get into this rehab and we will receive 6 months of treatment thanks to DARS (disabled Assistive Rehabilitative Services). We have already toured the facility and Chie is very excited to go there. She knows many people who have gone to Pate. The schedule and program looks really good. Chie will take part in making her own schedule, planning activities or tasks that interest and pertain to her, managing her time to do such things, and planning outings. When we went to tour the place, Chie had worked out her own little test with Sheila to see whether or not this place was alright. I did not know about it since Chie went directly to Pate from Sheila's house where she had her first sleepover!! Anyways, Chie tells Sheila, "If this lady takes me to the bathroom when I ask, then they alright." Thankfully the lady did not even hesitate when Chie asked to use the restroom during the interview. That's all I needed was to have to have to go through a round of battling over who takes her to the bathroom, but I have to admit, I was proud of her. It seemed like valid test to me after some of the rotten things we have been through by some of the laziest, least inteligent people on the planet. I cringe just thinking about them and I pray I never run across them on the street.

So, now with Pate passing with flying colors we will begin Tuesday. I will be off this week getting her admitted and meeting with therapist, counselors, etc... As soon as we get settled I will find out the lunch procedure for those of you who bring food and eat with her. I do ask that everyone please wait a couple of weeks so that she can get settled into the routine without any distractions and focus on her work at hand. I'll be sure and update you all to let you know how she is doing and when she is ready to have visitors. I will be making sure she has a good breakfast, as I am sure she will be talking to her new found friends, a lot.

Would like to thank everyone who helped us through this little transition period. Bobby, I dont know what I would have done without your help. We are forever in your debts brother. Bobby got a real taste of what it is like to be with Chie 24/7 since he stayed for a total of 6 weeks to help out during summer school and until Chie got into Pate. He left with a whole new respect for the word patience and probaly one he has not had since raising kids. He didnt get a chance to meet everyone at the party, but he was responsible of all the good food coming off the grill. Thank you to the Junko, Akiko, and Megumi for making that long drive from Keller to check up on Chie in the Afternoons while I was at school.

It was no small task, but with all of your help we were able to keep Chie working over the summer and hopefully somewhat ready for Pate. She continued with her walker, making all the way to the stop sign and back, she used the grabber, finally, for the first time while playing with Udon in the yard, she has been reading a story a day from her Japanese folk tale book that Keiko sensei gave her, she beat both Bobby and me at Othello repeatedly, practiced piano (if you thought you were tired of hearing The Star Spangled Banner from the Olympics, you ought to drop by our house these days), treasure hunt, categories, boggle, family feud, Jeopardy (well, that was mainly Bobby and I), sorting medicines, washing the car, folding clothes, and whatever else we could think of that could be seen as therapy, she did it. We even got her to use the computer, FINALLY!!!! I have been trying for six months to get her to use the computer but she just hasnt had any interest in it. Now, after some minor repairs, we have it hooked up to the huge TV, as she calls it, and she can see it! I am guessing that was the problem with the other one we have. We played some games on the internet to keep her mind sharp and then she got a call from her old friends Shochan, Nagurian, and Nichan. I had the big keyboard out, the giant Mouse ready, and showed her an email with great big monsterous type that she could read with ease, and then came the words Ive been waiting to hear, "I want to write them back , on the computer" Finally! and so she did. Thank you girls for calling. Chie didnt mean to cry, but wanted to let you know she was just so excited to hear from you. Its been a while since anyone has contacted her from Japan. Anyways, We tried to make it a working holiday so to speak.

Well , I will keep you updated frequently as we make the transition, but I am going to stop now because Chie wants to TYPE her first blog entry right after this,,,,,,YEA!

Thank you all for making her recovery a success!

Thank You for Coming

2008-08-24T12:36:00.000-05:00

Thank You for Coming

to our

Party!!!!!!

We just wanted to say thanks to everyone who came to the party , and to those who could not make it, we hope to see you at the next one. It was great to see and meet everybody. Its been such a long time since we last saw some of you. It was nice to catch up again. I know Chie enjoyed seeing everyone. She was "sooo happy" and it was "sooooo nice off everyone to come", and she wants to thank everyone "sooooo much." I think the day was a success. We hope everyone enjoyed themselves. It was truly our pleasure having you and we do hope to do it again soon.

I really want to thank Keiko for suggesting it and setting it up. Megumi for your endless help with our situation, Kaoru and the Ft. Worth crew, and last but not least, Beautiful Bobby for manning the Grill.

Thank you

Vacation At Last

2008-08-14T08:52:00.000-05:00

GALVESTON VACATION

We did finally get to take a little bit of a vacation. Chie was longing for the beach and so was I. Aunt Pammy had a few days open for us to stay at the beach house so we took 'em. Fortunately for us, Beautiful Bobby was already down there and agreed to stay to help me out with Chie. It can be a bit, just a bit tedious managing Chie along with everything else going on. We are ever greatful for you both.

We somehow made it to the beach house in right around 4 hours, and we stopped twice! I guess we were just both excited to get back to the beach and the ocean water. Everybody needs that. A quick stop by the beach house to put on suits and pick up some fishing poles and right to the beach. We had a nice suprise when we got there and saw Keithly, like a big brother to me, making an appearance to celebrate his birthday.

When we got there it was just a bit cloudy, which is great seeings how it has been so hot these days. The water was unusually cool due to the cloud cover, yeah! I know some people think it unimaginable that we could take Chie swimming in the ocean, but I think the ocean water is some sort of cure all, it makes you feel alive, and heals mind body and soul. Nobody should be denied that and we havent had it a very long time.

We drove out onto the beach, unloaded the wheelchair, strapped on Chie's life jacket, rolled her right out into the water until it got to deep for the chair, stood her up walked her right out into the waves!!! Like it ain't no thing, Piece of cake.

As you all know, we are not too big on people telling Chie she cannot do something. We played in the waves for a couple of hours trying to body surf Chie in the waves on her back with the life jacket. It was fun and she was so excited, repeatedly saying "FEELS GOOD!!! FEELS GOOD!!!" We we would tell her "Go Find Balance Danielsan" like Mr. Miagi in Karate Kid. Then we got a little shallower so she could get on her hands and knees and balance against the littler waves. Nobody wanted to get out, except for more beer, but it was getting dark already so we had to call it a day. It turned out to be a pretty good day of therapy for Chie as she was working quite a bit out in the water. She also got a little work out climbing up and down the stairs of the beach house.

The next day the weather was turning so we only went to the beach for a little while and then down to the strand to see what was shakin'. We visited the stores and then went to get a little dinner and relax. It gets a little blurry after that, haha, but at some point, we weathered hurricane Eduard, which should have been called "light wind Eduard." It turned out to be nothing despite the hype of the news stations. Unable to take anymore news coverage of the "rain" and "no injuries, no calls to police or fire departments" we decided to head down the beach for a drive and see what was going on. Its hard to believe they could fill up 8 hours of constant broadcasting with so little to work with. Down on the strand, we saw the news reporters asking people what the thought about the weather and when we got home, we saw Chie on TV four times!! That was pretty cool.

We went out that night to our Mardi Gras watering hole, Slices. Didnt take long to make friends there,, I think it was all of about 15 seconds before Chie had two drunken pachanguerras at our table, Roslyn and Heather. They were both very kind to us and it was nice to meet them as the made the night fun and exciting. Found our hook Freddy in no time as well and also really great to have made his aquaintance, appreciate the hospitality (thank you Jason). It was probably one of the best nights we have had in a long time.

There were just a couple of things left that Chie wanted to do for it to be a perfect vacation; Stay at a hotel, Catch a Shark! Seemed easy enough, and probably would have been, but apparantly its the standard business practice of the hotel COMMODORE ON THE BEACH to cancel all reservations without letting any of there cusotmers know, when there is a hurricane or tropical deppression. I called to check our reservation and the lady informs me that they are closed??!!???!! How weird is that? I cant imagine if we had just driven 1,000 miles to get there and then the hotel says " oh sorry we are closed, we cancelled all reservations" Where would we go stay? What kind of hillbilly business practice is that? The lady said they made every attempt to contact all customers to let them know,,But "every attempt" does not include dialing all 10 digits of a phone number, as I held my phone up showing the call log asking "how hard did you try to contact me? Did you pick up the phone but forget to dial? or like maybe forget that there are 3 numbers prior to the seven of a phone number known as an area code that you need to dial as well?" I dont even think she could understand me as she stood there twirling her tongue around her only front tooth and asking me if we wanted to stay that night. I asked her if that was a rhetorical question to which she responded "what?" I just said "never mind" and walked out. Surely she didnt think I was gonna spend any money there. I want to take this moment to encourage all the kids on the island to stay in school.

We booked a room on the flagship over the water and it was great! We had a balcony and could watch the dolphins and surfers and feed our Honeycomb cereal to the seagulls. It was a lot of fun and made for a change of scenery appeasing Chie, who got to have a long hot bath like she wanted. They also had a great pool for us to swi m in.

Now we only had to catch a shark. We catch sharks all the time in the surf by Aunt Pammy's but this time we wanted to go BIGGER! Though we were all on vacation, it is sometimes work trying to manage Chie all the time and we all needed a break, so I figured if you gonna do somethin, do it right! I felt like my father as I looked at Chie and said "What say old Dabito blow a little coin on a kick ass drag boat? eh Chie, a little "eat my wake" sharkin trip? I rememberred Dan Akroyd saying that in the Great Outdoors. Chie was clueless. Never the less, We would like to thank Captain Chad and First Mate Brad of Extreme Island AdventureThanks for cutting us a deal on a SHARKIN' TRIP!!! I called Aunt Pammy just to let her know that if they got a wild hair, that we had chartered a 32' scarab to go shark fishin in the morning just in case Mr. McCrea wanted to go. She called back about 20 minutes later saying 'David, Mr. McCrea is coming." and so they did. Right ON! I knew he wouldnt get soft on me. It was a blast! We caught 7 Sharks in under 3 hours and all the sharks were 5 feet or bigger!! How great is that!!! After the seventh one the captain looked at me and said "you wanna catch another?" to which I replied "Nope, its hot as hades out here, I think we are all good. Lets get out of here." 7sharks in 3 hours, its like a dream . I dont want sit out there all day trying to chase that, it doesnt get any better! Thank for a great trip guys. We will see you next time down, and for anyone reading this who may want to go get on some sharks in Galveston , its;

Captain Chad

Extreme Island Adventures

281 827 0740

That was the icing on the cake for our summer vacation and I cant believe the summer has already come and gone, so sad

See you all soon

End of Summer Celebration

2008-08-13T08:45:00.000-05:00

End of Summer Celebration

August 23rd 2pm-6pm

1121 Atlanta Dr.

Garland Tx 75041

The end of summer has finally come for us. Chie has graduated from CNS. We have taken a little time off and are adjusting to being at home full time. We would like to invite you all to our house to thank you for your continued support and celebrate the the many things we have to be greatful for as we step into the next stage of Chie's recovery.
I know we have not seen many of you in quite a while as we have stayed pretty busy preparing for our departure from CNS after almost two years. It is a little frightening for us as we sit in limbo waiting to see if or when funds will come through for Chie to resume therapy at Pate Rehabilitation. Unsure and insecure, we do not want to fall into a downward spiral of our fears, so Lets take this opportunity to boost Chie's spirits by getting together and show Chie the support she has behind her.
I will have some snacks and refreshments. You all know the level of my culinary skills, so if you want to bring something good, that is great! Really, your presence is enough, just come, relax, and enjoy!

We look forward to seeing you all

A NEW FAMILY MEMBER

2008-08-10T09:11:00.000-05:00

A NEW FAMILY MEMBER

IT HAS NOW BEEN ABOUT 2 WEEKS SINCE WE GOT A CALL FROM OUR OLD FRIEND, CAPTAIN TIM. HE CALLED TO SAY THAT HE HAD A GROUP CANCEL THEIR FISHING TRIP AND FOR ME TO GET CHIE UP THERE SO WE COULD TAKE HER OUT FOR A RIDE ON THE LAKE. CHIE ASKED IF HIS DOG, BO, COULD COME AND HE SAID "SURE," SO WE PACKED A FEW BAGS AND OFF WE WENT FOR A BOAT RIDE ON TEXOMA!!

TIM SAID THE STRIPER WERE HITTIN'. HE CAUGHT FOUR 10 POUNDERS THE DAY BEFORE AND WE READ ON THE INTERNET THAT ANOTHER GROUP HAD TO THROW BACK 13 AND 15 POUND FISH. SOUNDED GOOD TO US AND TIM SAID WE COULD STAY IN HIS CABIN FOR THE NIGHT SO WE PACKED A SOMETHING TO EAT AND LEFT RIGHT AWAY!! IT WAS A FUN NIGHT RELAXING AND CHIE PLAYING WITH BO DIDDLEY.

WE GOT UP EARLY AND HIT THE WATER AT THE CRACK OF DAWN. IT WAS NICE AND COOL AND THE SUN WAS GORGEOUS RISING OVER THE WATER. THE FISH WERE THERE AND CAPTAIN TIM PUT US ON 'EM. WE GOT INTO THEM ON TOP WATERS FOR A WHILE. IT WAS EXCITING AND FUN, JUST CRUISING ON THE BOAT WAS ENOUGH, EVERYTING ELSE WAS GRAVY. IM SURE A MORE EXPERIENCED FISHERMAN COULD HAVE CAUGHT MORE, BUT THE EXCITEMENT OF SO MANY FISH HAD MY GAME OFF. I POPPED MY LURE SO HARD ONCE IS SHOT OUT OF THE FISH'S MOUTH AND SMACKED TIM SQUARE IN THE HEAD,( SORRY ABOUT THAT. DONT GUESS WE WILL BE GOING BACK ANYTIME SOON).

BACK AT THE DOCK WE WATCHED TIM FILLET THE BOUNTY AND GOT READY TO HEAD HOME. RIGHT BEFORE WE LEFT THOUGH, TIM ASKED IF WE COULD RUN BY THE HOUSE, HE HAD SOMETHING FOR CHIE. WE RODE OVER TO THE HOUSE AND TIM GOT OUT OF HIS CAR AND WALKED OVER TO HIS WORKSHOP, HE LOOKED BACK WITH AN ODD GRIN ON HIS FACE AND LEANED DOWN OPENING A DOG KENNEL. OUT POPPED A VERY CUTE LITTLE RED LAB PUPPY. I ABOUT HAD A HEART ATTACK, KNOWING I HAVE TOO MUCH ON MY PLATE AS IS. I WAS SHAKING MY HEAD "NO", TIM WAS SMILING AND LAUGHING TELLING ME THAT IT WILL BE GOOD FOR CHIE, AND BY THAT TIME IT WAS TOO LATE.

CHIE, NOW, HAD THE DOG IN HER LAP KISSING IT AND LOVIN ON IT, SO WHAT COULD I DO? WHAT COULD I DO? ASIDE FROM WANTING TO STRANGLE TIM, I GUESS I COULD JUST GO AHEAD AND TAKE IN A COUPLE OF GERIATRICS TO CARE FOR IN MY SPARE TIME. NOTHING IS TOO MUCH, IM FEELING INVINCIBLE NOW! THE WHOLE RIDE HOME I SPENT TRYING TO CONVINCE MYSELF THAT I AM NOT HAVING A NERVOUS BREAKDOWN WHILE OUR FRIEND BOBBY INFORMS US THAT THE DOG IS COVERED IN FLEAS.

WE SPENT THE REST OF THE RIDE HOME THINKING OF NAMES. SASSY WAS WHAT TIM'S GIRLS NAMED IT, BUT CHIE WANTED TO GIVE IT ANOTHER NAME. AFTER CONVINCING HER THAT, YOSHIKO, HER MOTHER'S NAME, WAS NOT A GOOD IDEA DUE TO THE FACT THAT SHE IS STILL , LIVING!!! CHIE HAD IT SET IN HER MIND THAT IT HAD TO BE NAMED BY THE TIME WE GOT HOME, NO MATTER WHAT. SHE SHOT DOWN ALL OF OUR SUGGESTIONS IN NO TIME FLAT AND FINALLY SETTLED ON "SASSY UDON BEBE." WE CALL IT JUST, "UDON" AFTE HER FAVORITE NOODLE.

FOUR BATHES AND HUNDRED BUCKS OF FLEA SHAMPOO, SPRAY, COLLAR, ETC..... AND THE THING WAS STILL SCRATCHIN', ALMOST AS MUCH AS ME. ALL I HAD TO DO WAS HEAR THE WORD "FLEA" AND i WAS SCRATCHIN AND FEELING THEM ALL OVER ME. BOBBY ASSURED ME THAT I WAS JUST PARANOID AS HE WATCHED ME THE WHOLE RIDE HOME AND NEVER SAW ANY ON ME DESPITE MY CONSTANT SWATTING , RUBBING AND SCRATCHING.

TIM CALLED THAT NIGHT, ABOUT TWO DAYS TOO EARLY. HE ASKED HOW THE DOG WAS AND I EXPLAINED ABOUT THE FLEAS , ME HAVING A NERVOUS BREAKDOWN, HE CUT ME OFF THERE AND SAID HE WOULD HAVE TO CALL ME BACK, WISE CHOICE. IT WAS A COUPLE OF DAYS LATER BEFORE WE GOT BACK TO HIM AND LET HIM KNOW WE WERE OK AND ADJUSTING. HE TOLD US THAT IT WAS REALLY HIS GIRL'S DECISION. HE HAD TO ASK THEM IF THEY WOULD GIVE IT TO CHIE, AS IT WAS THEIR DOG, AND IT TOOK SOME CONVINCING BUT THEY AGREED THAT IT WOULD BE GOOD FOR CHIE TO HAVE. WE THANK YOU GIRLS. CHIE LOVES THE DOG AND HAS BEEN WORKING HARD TO TRAIN IT AND FEED IT. ITS REALLY SMART AND LOVES THE WATER.

SO NOW WE HAVE A DOG, OH JOY. CHIE HAS BEEN DOING WELL WITH IT AND REALLY LOVES IT. I DO HOPE WE WILL BE PLEASANTLY SUPRISED AND IT TURNS OUT TO BE THE BEST DOG EVER! I REALLY DONT WANT IT TO RUN AWAY AND NEVER BE SEEN AGAIN.

**** I DO HOPE TIM WILL LET US KNOW WHEN THE GIRLS BIRTHDAYS ARE. WE WANT TO GET THEM SOMETHING SPECIAL TO SAY THANKS, REAL SPECIAL!!

TALK TO YOU ALL SOON AND THANKS FOR YOUR SUPPORT.

A RICHLAND REUNION

2008-07-26T07:22:00.000-05:00

A RICHLAND REUNION

CHIE RETURNS TO HER OLD HOME,

THE M.C. (MulticulturalCenter)

REUNITES WITH CO-WORKER , FRIENDS ,

....HER SECOND FAMILY

LONG OVERDUE, but better late than never. Chie made the much anticipated trip back to her old job at Richland's Multicultural Center. Although she complains about forgetting everything her memories are there, we just have to find a way to tap into them. Seeing the campus and Thunder Duck Hall, where she worked for almost 3 years, seemed familiar to Chie as we parked and walked towards the building. We were no more than five feet in the building when she was overcome with excitement. She started telling me "She's the same! She's the same!" She quickly steered left to say hello to the lady working at the front desk who she remembered from going to work two years ago, and she remembered her as well. She rushed around the desk to give a big hug to Chie, telling her how she had been wondering what happened to her and when she would be back. It was pleasing to see that she didnt have any trouble recalling this friend. We have to hope hope that there is so much more just waiting to be triggered in her mind.

Chie was so excited to see everyone at the M.C. She has missed you all so very much, as you are such dear friends to her. She really enjoyed visiting with everyone and snacking on the wonderful foods you brought ( I have not forgotten the cookie sheet and will have it back soon. The cake was great!). It was good to catch up. I know we havent seen so many of you for such a long time. We cant thank you enough, I just dont know how to express just how much it means to us, all of your kindness, your endless support and wisdom, all of your understanding, willingness to help, offer suggestions and patience with me ( I know I have poured my heart out to many of you, overreacted, been absent minded, rude and god knows what else. I am sorry for my behavior).

Chie was overcome with emotions and excitement. It was a bit much for her right after the discharge. Did I say for her, excuse me, for us, I know it is for me. It is exhausting, believe me. We continue to work on her controlling her emotions so that Chie can present herself as composed, independent, poised and sophisticated drawing peoples attention away from her disability, so that when people see her, they do not see her as disabled. She has learned how to sit and position her arm so it does not noticeably shake, use good posture, speak clearly etc.. It is still very difficult and for many reasons. She has made stellar progress, so she always takes to heart when you tell her how she has improved. Just a little advice, Dont just say she has improved because she will call you on it, everytime, "really? how? In what way?" It means everything to her. She is well aware that she cannot notice her progress on a day to day basis and we work at it all day everyday, so you better believe she is gonna want details.

Aside from the obvious reasons why its hard to contain her emotions , I can share with you what she has with me and kind of what she is going through. First and Foremost, She is inately Japanese, so right off the bat she is internally dealing with the conflict of how she has in some way let the team down. Why and/or what is her excuse for not doing her job?, who is having to do it? She needs to apologize for the inconvenience she has caused, and she feels ashamed, embarrassed. It sounds crazy, but I would be willng to bet that is exactly what goes through her mind. If it makes you feel guilty for all the times you have slacked off at work, cut corners, or just said "screw it." Well, we should, feel guilty. Where she is from they just don't do that, like, its not an option, AT ALL. The job and the quality at which it is done, is first. Maybe that is why, in Japan, they will practically create a job for you in the company when you approach retirement and may be struggling with job duties, and here, the first sign of you not being able to do your job or keep up, You Gone! I guess we dig our own graves, Ouch!!

Anyways, Then the memory loss comes into play. Chie can often recognize you and the feelings of how close you were is present, it's just that the memories of how it came to be, are not. She wants to know all the times you shared and remember all the memories you had together. It is very important to her but they just don't come and we dont know how to hone into them to let them flow. To recognize someone and their face is so exciting and positive for her, but then to want so badly and to struggle so hard for the answers that will not come to the questions, how? and why, do I know this person? It is all incredibly heart breaking to her as the full weight of her reality and situation bear down on her shoulders leaving her at a loss and helpless. We will never know the depths to which this tortures her sanity, but I can see how it would make her want to scream and break down and cry. I think we often forget to realize just what she is going through, and therefore not understanding why she is overwhelmed with emotions and crying. We often get nervous and struggle ourselves to fix it or stop her from crying maybe feeling like we somehow caused this, but we did not and it's ok for her to cry and get it out, just be patient and stay with her to provide the security that even though the memories have left once, you will not. Chie is not stupid, she can listen to you tell her about the times you spent and then turn right around and tell someone else as if she does remember, but she really does not. Those memories mean a great deal to Chie, marking the special times you shared together. We need to remember that they were not just forgotten as if they were of no importance. They were stolen from her in the blink of an eye, and she wants them back! So, if she doesnt remember something do not feel as though its not important to her, because it is. Take the time to tell her and help give back what was taken from her. It may help fire up some of her own memories.

This is just a hint of what she is constantly faced with this in almost every aspect of life. I cannot even fathom the frustration that encompasses, but she does, and deals with it, WELL, on a daily basis. She holds within her a strength that legends come from, a strength that makes you feel there is nothing she cannot accomplish, so strong she could move mountains and touch the sun, inspiring to all, that makes us all better people just to have witnessed it.

2008-07-19T13:59:00.000-05:00

WHERE THERE'S A WILL THERE'S A WAY

CNS DISCHARGE / JULY 15TH 2008

Chie did very well during the party. She controlled her emotions and did not cry uncontrollably, which is something we have been working on for a while. She really carried herself well. Many many people had tears in their eyes, sad to say goodbye to Chie ( like me). Several people spoke about Chie; When the floor was opened up, it was silent and right in the front row was a young boy, in a wheelchair, tape on his glasses looking just as Chie did when we entered CNS. I speak to him often, but I had never heard him speak. He was the first one to raise his hand and he spoke up saying "thank you" to Chie. It was like it was right out of a movie or something. It was a very touching moment and we are proud of him. He seems to be following right in Chie's footsteps. We wish him all the best, I am sure he will go far. Her counselors reported on the progress she has made and what a miracle it is that she has come so far. They stressed how much of an impact her positive attitude and work ethic has had on her recovery. Her friends and patients spoke about her kindness and what an inspiration she is to virtually everyone she meets. And of course, everyone talked about how much she likes to "Talk!!" She is CNS' little social butterfly as Katie says.

**Suprise Guest**

Chie did have 3 unexpected guests come to her party and I think she may have been happiest to see one them who has been working with Chie longer than anyone else and always gets the biggest smile, and always gets most love from her, he is her favorite therapist and best best friend, Keeper! Keeper is a therapy dog who has been coming to see Chie for 2 years, ever since we were in Baylor Institute for Rehabilitation. Keeper came with Oliver and Roadie two more therapy dogs that Chie adores. There is one more that did not make it, but Chie wants to say " I Love You" to Beacher, who came the very first time with Keeper. She misses him much.
Chie spoke, to everyone saying goodbye and how greatful she was for their help, patience and skill that drove her to where she is now. She told other patients that she often dresses herself and David has to fix her clothes because she puts her clothes on backwards or inside out, and Chie is proud of herself for doing it too. It takes longer than it did before, but she wanted to wear her clothes, so she worked hard to get them on by herself. She told the patients that if they want to do something they should , and they should work hard to do it because its the only way. People will not always be there to do it for them. Chie finished by telling everyone

"Where there is a will, there is a way."

Two years is a long time so we have grown close to many of the patients and staff at CNS. They have become our friends and kind of a second family to us. We are thankful for all their work and help and we will miss them dearly. We will be back to see everyone from time to time so its not a goodbye. I was so so proud of her. She handled the occasion with grace and poise and the strength and independence of the Chie before the accident. I could not have been happier for her, and proud beyond measure. To come from so little; loss of conciousness, could not swallow, could not speak, broken bones, no movement in the left side at all, memory gone, could not even tell me what was in a salad! And then to see her now, is incredible, to say the least. I know that, NO, Chie is nowhere near where she was before the accident, but for her to come back day after day in such a positive light, giving her all to get better. It is hard not to realize what a special, SPECIAL INDIVIDUAL she really is

.... Remarkable

2 YEARS AGO TODAY

2008-07-03T16:52:00.000-05:00

2nd ANNEVERSARY OF CHIE'S ACCIDENT,

JULY 3RD 2006
We quietly passe the day at our home. Chie made no notice of the days significance. We had a great dinner prepared by a friend who has been staying with us for the last month helping out. After dinner we visited and Chie was tucked into bed early without incident. For me, on the other hand, it has been an emotional atom bomb as my mind tries to find some sort reasoning for our lives to come crashing down into a million pieces, while I long for the girl I fell in love with.

It was two years ago on this day that Chie was struck by a lady who ran a red light, T-boning Chie, ending all her dreams and apirations in life, leaving her severely brain damaged and confined to a wheelchair. We have never heard from the woman who struck Chie and our last update was that she never even showed up to court for her traffic tickets for failing to stop at a red light and speeding. Chie still harbors much anger towards the person who ran her over and took her life. Chie has wanted to meet the person and would like to do and say many things, but I think most of all, all she wanted was an apology. A simple, "IM SORRY" She has been encouraged to forgive, though impossible to forget, she won't allow herself to without those two words that mean so much. She has searched and searched for some sort of justification for this terrible turn of events finally deciding to set her anger aside and focus her energies on the work at hand, RECOVERING.

We have made some big steps in the last two years, coming from unconcious to awake but unable to speak, eat or swallow to just a squeeze of the hand that let us know she could hear us and understood what was spoken to her in English, retaining her second language. Then came a hum that turned into 3 and 4 word sentences over the following days. She went from not knowing what was in a salad at all to telling me how to prepare her favorite "Onesta Salad", Reymen, and Curry Rice complete with her mother's secret ingredient. From not being able to move her left arm at all to slinging back Chinese food at a turtles pace using a fork and raising her cup to mouth all by herself. She now can walk in a walker with assistance and tutors a friend in Japanese.
Chie was told she would not do much of what she can do now, but her extraordinary attitude and work ethic would not allow her to give anything less than her very best. That along with some of best supporters from all around the world have helped make her life as happy and successul as we could have wished for.
WE THANK YOU ALL

SUMMER TIME AND THE LIVIN'S EASY!!!

2008-06-27T11:01:00.001-05:00

SUMMER TIME AND THE LIVIN'S EASY

.... WELL, NOT REALLY

But we are trying our best. I just wanted to share these photos from the first day of summer. We were over at Aunt Pammy's for a BBQ. Steaks cooked to perfection, thanks Kev. Chie saw the pool and informed everyone that she was going for a swim. It was pretty funny. We just picked her up over the ledge and in she went!! We always strive to make her feel comfortable and as back to normal as possible so when she wants to do something we always do our best to make it so for CHIE.

Her smile makes it worth while!

6 Weeks of Madness!!!!

2008-06-15T13:50:00.000-05:00

6 weeks of Madness / May- June '08

I am sorry for the absence. It has been 6 weeks of madness for us over here. The last month of school is always hectic with end of the year planning and events that keep me very busy. Then, summer school began the very next day for teachers involved in a 21st Century Summer Camp Enrichment Program and we have been scrambling to get things together for the kids. Our school mismanaged the funding and we were alotted only 400$ for supplies and guest speakers for the children while all the other schools had between 4 and $8,000, so we have been having to creative, to say the least, in planning activities to liven up our camp.
I have also been completely stressed out over taxes and social security papers and insurace paper work that needed to be sent in and were/are in utter chaos, as things have just seemed to all run together this year. I have almost everything in order now, just a few more tax items to be finished up and we should be good to go. FINALLY!!!
ON top of all that we had some car trouble, the drier broke, and our Air Conditioning went out!!! Ain't Life Grand? So, after a couple of weeks without Air conditioning and hang drying all of our laundry all over the house I am thinking we can just live without these luxuries, its not that hot..
JUST KIDDING! Hopefully all will be restored to working order by Monday if the repairmen do their job properly, Im keeping my fingers crossed!

CHIE,,,, She has been in positive spirits, but it has also been a very emotional time for Chie the last couple of months. I think she is concerned about our upcoming discharge from CNS and what the future will hold for us. It can be scary for her to look forward towards the unknown and what will happen to her, I know it is for me, thats why I do not do it. In counselling, she too, has been taking some time to look back at and reflect on the progress she has made over the last year and a half, the friends that have come and gone, and feelings she has been through. All of this has caused her emotions to run high at times, but she is learning how to conrol and deal with them.
Chie was able to lead two of her own counselling groups at CNS. She chose the participants, topics of discussion, and directed the class. Our counselor said that she did very well and made sure the class progressed as it should have. Chie made sure to ask questions and keep everyone involvcd. The counselor said she did very well, YEA CHIE!!!!! She was excited to do it as she now hopes to one day be a counselor for people who have been in situations similar to hers. This helped her to see what its like to have to help others stay positive about there situations.
She has also been participating in some cooking classes. She really likes them,, and me too since she brings home treats for me! She made some peanut butter sandwiches, choccolate chip cookies, and cupcakes! Its been a lot of fun for her to do and it is helping to prepare her for being able to take care of herself.
***JAPANESE TRANSLATOR*** She has also had Japanese translators come to her speech lessons from 1-2 pm on Tuesdays and Fridays. Its been a lot of fun for Chie. This has allowed are speech therapist a chance to see how well she is doing in her native language, and we are happy to say that she is doing fantastic. Obviously much better in her native language. Thank you Hiroe and Megumi. Unfortunately for us, Hiroe has recently taken a new job and can no longer continue so we will be looking for anyone who thinks they might like to help us out, from 1-2 pm at CNS on Tuesdays and Fridays. You need only speak japanese, you dont have to be a certified translator or anything. If you may be interested please let me know, 469 363 6611 or at suckadave@hotmail.com
We are set to leave her current Rehab facility, CNS in mid July. Chie has handled it very well in comparison to previous changes in her schedule. She takes it personally and views the situation as though her therapists are throwing her out and giving up on her. We quickly had to shift gears and look at it as a graduation or positive change, meaning that this is a step forward for her and that her therapists would not discharge her if she were not ready to take that next step. She made that adjustment fairly smooth minimizing the emotional outbreaks and crying. We will be moving to PATE, a new Brain Injury Rehab just a few miles from CNS. I think it will be a positive move for her to get some new faces and routine going in her life. She is a bit burned out at CNS and needs a change of scenery. I have toured the facility before and think she will do just fine there. She has a few friends from CNS already going there so she will be excited to see them.
Chie has also been dealing with several of her friends discharging from CNS, whitch is another touchy area for her, again feeling as if they are leaving her and taking it quite personally. She has, this time, done really well understanding and internalizing the departures. I think it is because she knows that she now has her own date set to leave. Almost all of her immediate group is leaving or has left either this month or last month and her newest and closest friend was sent home unexpectedly last week, and that really upset her. It is hard for her to see others, who arrived after her, leaving before her. She feels left behind as if she is not making progress and not getting better. She feels as though they are personally abandoning her and she is left behind and forgotten about. Thank you to all of our supporters who visit her and call her and write letters, and cook, for this has been critical role to help Chie know that she is cared about, has friends and feels loved to help her stay out of that downward spiral of deppression and negativity. I cant tell how important you have all been and we are so greatful for you help. I have explained to her that we want to stay as long as possible because this is our life line and once we are finished with it, we have nothing else. It also took some time to explain to her that most of the people who leave CNS are going to continue therapy in their home towns and that they are not leaving because they choose to, but because their insurances companies will no longer pay for the rehabilitation. Many want to continue therapy it is only that it is not there choice and most cant afford to continue on their own. I think now she realizes how lucky we are to have this great therapy and how fortunate we are to have such a supportive case manager at the insurance company.
I do believe we have set the record for longest stay at her rehab. The average stay is 6 months and we are going to be coming up on 21 months in July. Our conselor pulled me aside to talk the other day in preparation for our next move and she was telling me that she had never seen anyone stay this long and that is was because Chie had fought so hard, I had fought so hard, and our case manager had fought so hard. She commended us all on a job well done and has been helping us prepare for our next step.
We too, in turn, would like to commend all of our therapist, counselors, case workers, supporters, friends, and doctors for all their hard work in making Chie's recovery a success. Its hard to believe it has been almost two years, what seems to me like a couple of months. We have come further than some would have ever expected and we are not finished yet. We know that we still have areas to focus and improve on, both physically and cognitively. Chie is continuing to make progress as we set new goals and strive to meet them. Never in my mind did I think that we would not come this far. Failing has never been an option for us to consider, but never in my mind would I have ever thought that it would have taken so much to get here. All the support, the visits, the food, cooking, the books, cards, videos, conversations, flowers, phone calls, advice, translations and the list goes on and on. I never could have imagined the importance of all these things and how much they would mean and the affect it would all have on Chie to provide her the security and self confidence to keep a positive attitude and that fighting spirit alive in her. Never, Never, Never Surrender! It is truely an extraordinary thing to see so many come together in an effort to take part in and help this one recover from such a tragic event in life. I would just like to thank you all from the bottom of my heart, for the success we have had in Chie's recovery. We could have never accomplished so much without you.
CHIE and DAVID

Hajimemashite Ft Worth, Yoroshiku Onegaishimasu

2008-04-28T22:30:00.000-05:00

FT WORTH SUPPORT

First off, we would like to thank all of our new supporters from Ft. Worth and a special thanks to Yoshiko and Kaoru and Yuri for opening their doors to us and organizing the festivities. We had a wonderful time meeting everybody and visiting with you Sunday. It was just a fantastic and relaxing day for both Chie and me. Im sorry I spoke so little. I tend to get a little emotional and could go on for hours about all we have been through and how much it means to us to have your help, but it always ends up with me crying a river. I so did not want to have to end such a good day like that, again. I much prefer and its much easier for me to do it at home by myself while Chie is sleeping and I write the blog, arigatogozaimasu.
Chie was so happy to have made so many new friends. She just loved the Chie Bingo. What a creative and cool idea. For everyone not there, we played a game of Bingo dedicated to Chie. All the squares on the cards were things related to Chie and to get the square you had to know the meaning of its relationship. The judge was very generous and it was a lot of fun for everyone. It was a great way for everyone to learn more about Chie and her past. She, of course, loved everyones cooking, almost knocking out the leftovers shortly upon returning home. Tako Yaki was awesome and I am so embarrassed to not know how to make it. It is something I must learn to cook soon.
She talked all the way home about having to organize everyones phone number and telling me what we need to do to say thank you to everyone. It was very cute. We thank you all for everything; your contributions, gifts, cooking, conversation, kindness and friendship, but most of all, I thank you for the smile on her face and the happiness in her eyes, that is something you could not buy with all the money in the world. It means so much to Chie to have friends and be accepted, especially now, as the journey grows long, progress comes at a slow but steady pace, her awareness heightens to the realization of the depth of her situation. We both fell pretty scared, lost and alone at times when wondering what we will do next or what will happen in the future. It's these times when you learn the value and importance of things like, a smile, laughter, and friendship. For that we thank not only you, but everyone taking part in Chie's recovery from this unfortunate incident and the life you are giving her.
We could not do it without you
Chie and David

PS I ll post pictures soon. I seem to have forgotten my camera at Kaoru's place, summahenna, Gomen.

First Day of School!!!!

2008-03-18T18:32:00.000-05:00

FIRST DAY OF SCHOOL!!!!

We are playing catch up, but I wanted to share some pictures and fill everyone in on how things have been going from home.

It is really great to have Chie home!!!!

This was her first day of therapy from home. She was very excited and a little nervous about whether her driver was going to make it or not. She kept asking if I was sure she had our address and if I had called to make sure she was coming. It was about 7:40 in the morning when our new and friendly driver made it to the house. Chie was so very happy to hear that she made it with no problems at all. She said that Chie talked all the way to clinic! Chie came home just as excited and adjusted well to her new longer day!

Message from CHIE!!!

2008-02-24T11:50:00.000-06:00

Hello, how are you doing? Its still cold out, isn't it?? I found its still hard to wake up in the morning and I found its still so easy to go to bed at night. Therapy is hard but its working I hope. We have been using our arms a lot last week and the week before. I hope this will help me to move my left and right hand more precisely.

HOme is the best!!! home sweet home! As you know I can tell any small selfishness to David , to my papa, so its the best. Sorry but I cant go back to apartments now cause home is so nice. I talk to my old friend still. His name is Ralph. Ralph is a very unique guy. He's my best friend. I love him and he loves me. He went back to his home town but we talk on the phone. He says he will call me back soon, but he calls me back later, but I understand so I dont say anything.

To other people, I need help still. I still need help a lot still, a lot. I need help in English and Japanese both. It's a long way to go back the way I was, but I want to. I want to tell David, do this; Dont do that! but I try not because I am sick. I want to say it more more more , but I cant. I miss everybody who came to see me at the apartments. Its ok , just come to say hello or goodbye, or see you later and that gives me power to wait to see you next time.

And all the therapist, Thank you so much and all the people, Thank you so much.

2 weeks ago, I went fishing to Lake Texoma. I met Captain Tim!! It was very fun!!! For the first time, I caught a fish!! and captain Tim took us everywhere on lake Texoma, and I took fish and Capatain Tim took fish, and Dave took fish and we were all happy!!!! I met Captain Tim's new dog, Beau. Beau is a brilliant dog. Shadow is a friend of Beau, and Shadow was there but since Beau is here Shadow kind of goes around. If anybody finds Shadow please let us know. Please call this number 469 363 6611, and I will be home after 4:30 and I can answer the phone. I need to have a dog and I want to haave a dog. Yesterday we went to the dog park with Keiko who has Sakura, which is my old friend and with Maiko, my new friend who has pepper, and they are soooooo cute!!!! Unfortunately Rajit was at work with Megu. According to Keiko Megu is only good for Rajit. Megu is not a social dog. I dont believe it but mama says so so maybe. Anyway, we had a great time and we came back to our place and pepper and Sakura and their mama's and me came back to our house and we drank tea and talked. that was very fun. See like that, you dont have to stay long at all and it was an excellent time. That is what I call fulfilling life. Last Saturday too, I went to eat with Richan. We ate Peruvian food and it was excellent too. Thank you Richan. and Curry too, it was sooo good , thank you Akikochan.

LIke this please come everybody , please come to say hello , you dont have to spend a long time just to say hello. If you have any questions you are welcome to call my house or Dave's cell phone (above). Thats about it, Thank you very much

CHIE

Thanks everyone, We are getting used to being at home now. Chie is adjusting to the longer days and is doing pretty well. She does miss seeing everyone so I want to invite all the Dallas people to visit if you like during the week. I know its a bit far for those of you way out west and I love and thank you all so much for your visits and the food you brought Chie. Its so very important to her recovery to have friends and speak in both English and Japanese. So, If you live near 635 & Northwest Highway and would like to come see Chie please contact me at the number above and we can set something up!!

Take Care and we will see you soon,

DAVID

AND WERE BACK Sorry for the delay

2008-02-16T17:47:00.000-06:00

CHIE IN THE HOUSE

Well, I know it has been a while but we are back and continuing to keep you all up to date with Chie's progress. I am sorry for the delay. It has really been a handful keeping up with everything here at home. I have just been so busy helping to teach Chie all the new surroundings, routines, and just getting used to being at home, along with cooking, dishes, laundry, cleaning, prepping lunches / breakfast, appointments, work, etc.... that I have not been able to get the blog going. Now I hope to get back in the rythm and get you all updated.

Despite being transferred out of inpatient at the apartments for whatever reason, I have no idea!, Chie is doing really well here at the house. Happy to be home and happy to have gained some independence to do things on her own. We have tried to get the house fixed up as best we could for her return. We would like to especially thank DARS (Disabled and Rehabilitative Services) Margo and Kay as well as Chet and Cindy at Home Ready Rental for getting approved and finding so much of what we needed. She has a whole room with all her lotions and clothes on shelves where she can see and reach them. She prepares her clothes for the next day by herself every evening. She has all of her lotions and chip chap in order and put where she wants it to be kept. The bathroom door is widened and hand rails are installed, so she no longer has to wait on someone to take care of business. We have snacks out where she can reach them and keep food and drinks on the lower shelves of our fridge so she can get to them if she is hungry. She has even been able to use the microwave to warm something to eat up for herself. She loves the shower where she can sit until the hot water runs out. We use hands free two wave radios to communicate when we are not in the same room . She just starts talking and I can hear and respond to her every need, and they can be demanding at times!!! We are getting different stations in order so she will have a variety of things to occupy her time if she is left alone.

Now she commutes from the house and I am happy to say that she no longer uses her wheelchair when she goes to therapy!!!! Her goal this year is to walk so we decided that is just what she will do. She takes her walker to school and reserves the wheelchair for weekends and the house!!! Oh, and she did walk when we went to see the doctor. She wanted to show her what she could do, and she made sure to shake hands with her left, rememberring the day when nobody thought she would ever use her left arm again. Yeah Chie!!! Its a longer day for her and we were all worried about how she would endure, but she has managed pretty well. She has had a few slips and a couple of falls. They about scared me to death. She said she was ok though. I just cant be there 24/7. I watched her take the first fall while cooking dinner. She just got mixed up on how to transfer and stood up, lost her balance, and down she went. We are really working hard on stressing safety. One of her deficits is the ability to distinguish safe and dangerous situations. She is learning but has attempted a few not so favorable tasks. Twice while waiting for our driver she has gotten up out of her chair all by herself and walked to the door. The first time I caught her, she was halfway out the door!!!! I was shocked but she just smiled and said " I didnt think you would check. I am waiting for the driver." She got in TROUBLE for that one. The other time she walke to the door just in time to realize that our door opens inward and she cant back up in the walker! OOPS!! I try to stress the safety but not be too harsh, I have to respect the "FIGHT" in her and try to understand that she wants to do so much more. She really is doing a lot of work at home and just doesnt realize it. She wears herself out and has been crashing pretty early. This has begun to frustrate her and makes things harder for us to get dinner and bathed and ready for bed. We will see what we can do to fix that.

She misses many of you who came to see her at the apartments. We thank you so much for all you do and did for us. She hopes you will come visit soon to our house, but she knows it is far for you and understands if you cant come very often. We will be here and you are always welcome anytime you can make it.
Thanks and will talk to you all soon.

Happy New Year!!!!!!!

2008-01-01T14:00:00.000-06:00

HAPPY NEW YEAR
TO EVERYONE
I want to wish everybody a very VERY Happy New Year for every single person. I wish this to be wonderful new year for this coming new year 2008. My goal is to be able to walk this year without a walker, ,,so I hope that lots of people support me continuously too. Thank you to everyone who is supporting me.
Thank you very much for coming to the party, It was the nicest time I have ever had. Its the nicest party I have ever had. I thank you so much. I hope everyone had fun too. I really hope you had fun. I had fun too. I hope you will come and see me now that you know where I live, not only the people who came to the party but everyone can come see me. I wish I could say to every single person "Thank you sooo much. I had a wonderful time. " You can come see me anytime. Thats all now. Bye Bye
Chie

Chie also wants to send a very special thank you to all of her supporters from Mrs. Slabaugh's class way up in the Buckeye state of Ohio for cheering her up today. Your cards brought smile after smile to her face. They are very special and she will keep them always!

Thanks everyone for coming to the party Saturday. You made the day special for Chie. Chie had an excellent time. She was soooooo happy to see so many of you. She got a little worried at first and was telling me that "it would be Great if even one person came." It was very cute. We do thank you all for coming and hope to see you soon.
Happy New year!!

MERRY CHRISTMAS / video message!!

2007-12-25T17:10:00.001-06:00

MERRY

CHRISTMAS

CHIE AND I WISH YOU A VERY MERRY CHRISTMAS!!! WE HAVE TRIED TO RECORD A HOLIDAY MESSAGE FOR YOU ALL SO I HOPE THIS WORKS.

PARTY TIME !!!!!!!!

2007-12-22T20:39:00.000-06:00

PARTY TIME ! ! ! ! ! !

COME ONE, COME ALL,

NEXT SATURDAY,
DECEMBER 29TH
FROM 2PM to 8PM

NOW THAT CHIE IS HOME WE WANTED TO TAKE THIS OPPORTUNITY TO SAY "THANK YOU" TO ALL OF YOU, FOR ALL THAT YOU HAVE DONE FOR US.

PLEASE JOIN US AT OUR HOUSE:
1121 ATLANTA DR.
GARLAND TX 75041

CHIE IS VERY EXCITED ABOUT GETTING TO MEET MANY OF YOU, SOME FOR THE FIRST TIME! WE HAVE BEEN SO BUSY THAT WE HAVEN'T BEEN ABLE TO GET OUT AND SEE EVERYONE FOR A WHILE AND CHIE IS HAVING TROUBLE KEEPING UP WITH THE CARDS AND REMEMBERING EVERYONE AND EVERYTHING (ME TOO). WE WOULD LOVE FOR EVERYONE TO DROP BY AND SHOW HER JUST HOW MANY PEOPLE ARE BEHIND HER AND PULLING FOR HER, SO PLEASE DROP BY AND SAY HELLO, GRAB A DRINK, HAVE SOMETHING TO EAT, AND SPREAD SOME HOLIDAY CHEER. FEEL FREE TO BRING A DISH IF YOU LIKE.

RSVP AT CHIE118@HOTMAIL.COM

WE LOOK FORWARD TO SEEING YOU SATURDAY

LET'S GO HOME!!

2007-12-22T16:18:00.000-06:00

HOME SWEET HOME

TONIGHT TONIGHT,,

IM ON MY WAY

IM ON MY WAAAAYYYY.....

WE FINALLY MADE IT!!!!

AFTER A LONG AND TIRING YEAR AND A HALF, WE CHIE FINALLY RETURNS HOME! ITS SEEMED STRANGE LEAVING HER APARTMENT AFTER ALL THE TIME WE SPENT THERE. THINKING BACK ON ALL THE MEMORIES WE HAVE HAD THERE, ROOMATES, RA'S, BBQ'S, THE FIRST TIME SHE TRANSFERRED FROM HER CHAIR TO HER BED, KARAOKE, ETC... WE ARE GREATFUL FOR ALL THE HELP AND HARD WORK EVERYONE PUT IN FOR US. WE WILL MISS THE FRIENDS WE HAVE MADE THERE AND WILL KEEP IN TOUCH. MOST OF ALL, I THINK WE WILL MISS OUR FRIEND SHEILA. SHE AND CHIE HAVE SPENT THE LAST TWO DAYS CRYING TOGETHER AND HOLDING EACH OTHER AS THEY LOOKED BACK OVER ALL THEY HAVE BEEN THROUGH TOGETHER. SHE WAS A TRUE BLESSING AND HAS BECOME FAMILY TO US. WE HOPE TO SEE HER OFTEN.

WE CLOSE ONE CHAPTER OF OUR LIVES

AND OPEN ANOTHER.

HOME......

HOW SWEET IT IS ....

***CHIE IS HELPING ME WRITE THIS AND SHE WANTED TO SEND A SPECIAL MESSAGE TO EVERYONE,****

"THANK YOU FOR HELPING ME UP TO NOW. I REALLY, REAAALLLLYYYY APPRECIATE IT. I WILL BE AT MY HOME NOW SO PLEASE HELP ME CONTINUOUSLY AND COME TO OUR HOME. I GO TO HOME BUT THAT DOESNT MEAN I FULLY RECOVERED. I STILL CANNOT WALK AND I STILL CANNOT, LIKE, SEE PERFECT, OR EAT WITHOUT HELP. THEREFORE, KORE KARAMO DOZO ONEGAIITASHIMASU."

PS. "HOWEVER, IF THERE IS ANYTHING I CAN DO,, PLEASE ASK ME OR LET ME KNOW AND IM HAPPY TO HELP YOU."
THANK YOU

CHIE

Japanese Fall Festival / Akimatsuri (Dallas)

2007-11-24T13:48:00.000-06:00

AkiMatsuri

The Japanese Fall Festival (Dallas)

** catching up **

Going way back to the Japanese Fall Festival. Chie really had a great time seeing everybody, Aya, Kat, Katsu, Keiko, Akiko, Ino, Tamako, Hiroe, Yasuko, Nakahashi, Yoshiko, Chika and just everyone. We arrived around noon trying to let her rest so she would not need to leave to early, or so I thought. She was so excited seeing everybody and eating all the good foods, for some it was her first time to see you since the accident and though it got a litte emothional at time it was very good for her. I figured she would be ready to go by around 2-2:30pm so I didnt purchase any raffle tickets like we normally do. I asked her if she was ready to go but she said "no no, we have to stay for the raffle." Two and half hours later she had finally had enough and was ready to go about 4:30pm.. She was tired and worn out just from trying to process all the emotions from the day. We thank everyone we met and helped us out during the day. We got some pictures and I think im going to let them do the talking for us on this. .

ENJOY.......

HAPPY THANKSGIVING!!!!!!!!

2007-11-22T12:44:00.000-06:00

HAPPY THANKSGIVING!!!!!!!!!!!

Chie and I would like to wish everyone a happy thanksgiving!!!!!!!!! We have so much to be thankful for this year and all of you are at the top of our list. We do hope that everyone has a wonderful Thanksgiving with lots of Turkey, Family, Fun, and if it's not asking too much a win for the Cowboys!
Thank you all for giving us one more great day!

Chie and David

Prelude to: Much Catching Up

2007-11-18T04:23:00.000-06:00

Much Catching Up

Its been almost a month since Ive updated everybody and I am truly sorry. It has been a pretty busy time for us as basketball season has started and keeps me at school until 6pm most days and trying to squeeze in last minute appointments in preparation for Chie's return home this December, so bear with me. This may a be a bit long, but Ill try to break it up into several posts for you.

As always, we would like to thank you all for your continued support. We really cant thank you enough for all the cards, visits, food, donations, phone calls, videos, books ,, and the list goes on.

Thank You Thank You Thank You Thank You

Keep 'em Coming!!!!

Chie looks forward to every little thing and as many of you have seen,, the smile it brings to her face is priceless!

(*****Those of you who got Thank you cards or did not get Thank you cards, Or got thank you cards with someone elses name on it; " Gomen ne, sumahenna." I have no idea what happened. I spilled a drink and found like, four cards behind my desk, two got returned in the mail, and I dont know what to say,,,,,,, Im gonna have to take a mulligan on that one. I have tried to rewrite them all, so I hope you can forgive me.)

Chie remains in good spirits and is Genki most of the time. She is eagerly anticipating her return home, which will be just before Christmas. She gave me specific instruction to let you all know her new phone number and address and to tell you to call and come visit when you can. As ordered, here it is:

972 926 4150 home

1121 Atlanta Dr.

Garland Tx 75041

She will remain in outapatient therapy Monday - Friday returning home each evening. And YES, I will now begin to check the home phone for messages. Seriously, I usually dont get home until 11pm or later and I look at our answering machine flashing 0-0-0-0-0, so I never even knew we had call notes or whatever it is, and I dont know about all of you, but it seems like we get about a million sales calls. Its insane!! If you need to reach us you will probably have better luck trying my cell @ 469 363 6611.

****We Will BE Late!!!!!!

if we are doing something with you or meeting you, Let me just go ahead and tell you we will most likely be LATE. I do have a solution though, if you don't mind helping me out here. Please just tell us it or whatever we may be doing is 30 minutes to an hour earlier than it really is. For example,, if we are supposed to go to the movies at 5pm, tell us the movie starts at 4:30pm. This would be a great help to us and all parties involved. Im not saying we wont still be late but I think it will greatly increase our chances of being on time. Sorry for the inconvenience.

I think a lot of it stems from the fact that she is rushed and pushed so hard during the week that when the weekend comes she wants to do things at her pace. I know she keeps a pretty full slate during the week with therapy, visitors, chores, tutoring, etc... She has made it very clear to me that I am to make no plans without her O.K, ON THE WEEKENDS. I sign her up for outings and such and it may sound fine during the week but come Saturday, "I wanna go home." Ive gone round an round with her and it gets me no where. She's gonna do and make me do exactly what she wants to, ON THE WEEKENDS. i guess I see where she is coming from because she is rushed in the morning and has to hurry to get the bus on time. They push her at clinic all day, then she comes home and has to do her chores and visit with company, go to the store, movies, dinner, etc.. And she just does not like being rushed constantly, so when the weekend comes she wants to do what she wants, when she wants, and at her pace. She has cancelled her tutoring and Piano lessons so her schedule is clear. ICC, we mean no disrespect and wish we could go more often to see you all. I know she had a wonderful time at the ICC a few weeks ago when we went. She sang with the choir/band and had a great time visiting with everyone and getting to meet so many of you, but it is like pulling teeth to get her to go. She runs me ragged trying to get her out of the house, lets put on our socks! NO, not those socks the other ones. where's my chip chap, could you get me a drink? No No,, I dont want ice in it cause its already cold from the fridge, will you take me to the bathroom?, can I brush my teeth? She is such a character I can't help but laugh. Im sure its lots of fun for her watching me run around like a chikcen with my head cut off, but it takes some work to get her moving on the weekends. " Is my clay in my backpack??!!!!????"

Anyways, Hopefully she will relax a bit once at home. We would like to have a get together once she gets home and have you all over to the house, maybe around the 29th of December, let me know how that sounds to everyone. I know its close to the holidays so if you can tell me what you think we would appreciate it.

Ok, well, this is one and in the next one Ill begin updating on what she has been doing recently. Sorry i ran out of time. Its almost 6am and she is gonna get me for being late because I said I would come early and if I am too much later Im gonna hear about it ALL DAY,,, ON THE WEEKEND!

Thanks y'all, Ill get another posted today!!!

A New Best Friend

2007-10-21T05:35:00.000-05:00

A NEW BEST FRIEND

Chie has recently been enjoying the company of a new best

friend at clinic. They have had a good time together in classes and Chie has finally found someone who views their circumstances and current situation in an equally positive light, maybe even a tad more, as Chie is able to turn to him for a boost when she gets down. Someone to point out all she has and how far she has come and to remind her to hope for future progress just as he hopes for his God to bless him. It is just great to see them get along and talk an joke. They went to the fair together and had a ball even though they didnt ride any rides, but for good reason. when Chie was asked "How come you ain't been on any rides chie? I know you ain't SCARED!!" Chie explained "No, i'm not scared but since only have one day, better to just eat." and eat they did, sausages on a stick,, funnel cakes, ice cream, turkey legs, lemonade, and of course, Fletcher's Corn dogs. All that and a bathroom break and we were headed home. Since we aren't so young anymore; I can call that a success. The weather was nice and atmospere was ,, well , fair ( yes, im aware that was pretty cheesey).

Anyways, moving right along. We had a BBQ the other night that allowed us all to get out and enjoy some of the cool fall weather that has rolled in. I think it was good for everyone as we relaxed for the evening, making jokes and watching as the meat grilled up over the coals. Chie got nervous her friend would forget so
she took the liberty of letting him know that if he forgot, she was gonna kick his ---!! But , he said he was comin' and he did with his meat marinated and ready to go. Chie was sooooooo happppy!!! Everything went off without a hitch and it was one of the best nights weve had in a while.

A Brief Roomate

Chie had a new roomate briefly, for only two nights. She was younger, just out of highschool and in much the same shape

Chie was in the beginning, so naturally Chie took a liking to her right away. She was pretty scared and im sure still in shock but thankfully she has her father right by her side to help her feel secure and safe. They have since moved to a new apartment to get settled in but Chie is already working her magic. Sheila told me that they were worried about the girl not being hungry and not eating. Nobody could get her to eat. Then Sheila told her father and everyone else to hang on just a second that she wanted to just try something real quick. She rolled Chie into the room and told her that she would wait outside if she needed her, then closing the door leaving the two alone. After a few minutes Chie and her roomate were ready to come out. Chie, hungry as usual, was ready for dinner. They then asked her roomate if she was hungry or might want to try and eat something. She gave them the thumbs up sign and finally began eating!!! IT was another great moment for all of us. Chie wasnt happy to see her leave because she knows she needs her help.

-We are hoping she will be back soon.

Practice Makes EASY

2007-10-21T05:11:00.000-05:00

Hello again to everyone and thank you so much for the continued support. Chie has really been doing well lately. She seems to be in good spirits and marching full steam ahead. She has been good about pitching in around the house with laundry, cleaning the table after eating, dishes, brushing her teeth,and continuing her home exercise routine (Good Job Lovey!). She has even helped out at our house on the weekends, much to my suprise!! And I can tell you why, she promises this every weekend but is usually too tired or she has to prepare for her tutoring lesson or she is thirsty, bathroom , socks, blanket, and it goes on and on; point being she never gets around to it (LOL). Fortunately for her,, I can relate. So, this weekend I expected the same even though she had reminded me twice that she was going to help this weekend. When I arrived Saturday morning, there she was looking as beautiful as ever and trying to be sneaky, as she sat in a DRESS I bought her one Christmas. I asked if those were her work clothes for today, but she is good and told me not to worry, she had a change of clothes in her back pack to work in....Im impressed and it seems she is getting back to normal more and more each day. Ican smile easier each day. I am so proud of Chie for working so hard and I am so thankful to all of you who are helping to make it possible.

2007-10-13T06:28:00.001-05:00

A REAL TURNING POINT

A real turning point came for Chie when she sat down to have breakfast with a coworker of mine and former test pilot for the US military forces. Mrs. Mary Green, a sweet lady who looks no different from you or I came to see Chie and share her story about an unfortunate situation she went through several years back. Mary began her day like any other and she remembers it tht way right up to being strapped into the cockpit of a new jet that she was to be testing that day. Her memory stops there. All she knows is that something went wrong and they went down. LIke Chie, many of her memories like those of what happened that day had to be learned by others who told her what happened. She came out of the crash alive but in dire straights suffering 106 broken bones and though wearing a helmet she was told by her husband and his friend that "it looked as if the cap of her head had been knocked off, but the doctor picked it up blew the dust off and put it right back on." Jokingly adding "That's why she has dirty thoughts!" It was a devastating accident and she went through every doctor available until they said they could do no more. Fortunately, her doctor told her that there was on man, a student doctor. She would not like him. He knew that for sure, but he was a good doctor, very good, the best in his class. If she was willing he could arrange for him to see her,, She was willing, still with some fight left in her. She said he came in looking like he'd been at the bar all night, messy hair, beard, looking like a hippie. Her doctor ws right, she did not like him. Each day he arrived setting two one pound dumbbell weights on the end of her bed and proceeding to tell her about sighting of her husband having dinner at the restaraunt and necking away with some pretty little blond he was with and how he had forgotten about her and moved on. She knew in her head, that it was impossible because her husband was out of the country on business and duties, but her heart would not let it go. “Jealousy is what drove me “ She explained , Even though her mind knew it not to be true her heart pushed her onwards. She said that he made her so angry one day that she reached down to pick up that weight and throw it at him. It didn’t go far , pretty much just rolling off the bed onto the floor, but she said that as soon a she did that, her doctor turned around looking her straight in the eye and said “You see? You can do it, If you want.”
She wanted to get better and she did with a lot of hard work and the support of her husband she never gave up and made a miraculous recovery. She spent the next two years in a hospital bed getting her balance and learning to walk and a total of five years in the hospital before finally going home to stay.
Chie and I congratulate you and have the utmost respect for you and your recovery. You provided Chie the inspiration to push on at the time she needed it most. It meant so much for her to hear that she is not the only one who cries or considers less than desirable alternatives to her situation, and to hear how that you did it through hard work!!! And your husband’s support really clicked with Chie. She still speaks about your story and it was less than a week later she turned and told me that she now , has a goal to -
To Be Independent
Thank you

I HAVE A GOAL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-09-29T14:03:00.000-05:00

I HAVE A GOAL

I am happy to report that Chie seems to have taken to a new light. She seems to be in good spirits. She told me the other day, "I HAVE A GOAL. MY GOAL IS TO BE INDEPENDENT BY THE TIME I GO HOME IN DECEMBER." Sounds like winner to me and I know, with the love and support she has been shown by all of you, she can do it! It made me cry to see what a trooper she is. Attitude is everything hers couldn't be better. She gives no less than a hundred percent everyday, something few can say though we all strive to. Extraordinary, in every sense of the word.
Lets help her keep things positive while she tackles this next goal!

So much of this recovery is due to all that you contribute, the letters, the food, company, conversation, donations, and the love and care you give her that can only be felt. I just again wanted to let you know how much it means to us and that it does not go unnoticed.
Thank you with all our hearts

In Recent News

Chie had a visit from a Buddist Monk who came and spoke to her. She really enjoyed it and enjoyed learning about the beliefs she had been raised with. It was good for her to hear his views and how they deal with some of lifes setbacks and difficulties. She has a tremendous respect for their ability to view things in such a positive light and it seems to have worked as this was the turning point for her to getting back on the upside things. We feel blessed to have had him take the time to care about her life and future so much.

Grapevine Grapefest
We spent a wonderful Saturday going to the Grapevine Grapfest with our friend Akiko. Thank you for taking us. Chie enjoyed the wonder weather and getting outside, the sounds of live bands, peole talking, a taste of wine, and the dances performed. We had a good time gettin out and doing something fun. It was just what we needed to give us a boost. She was rather tired but I think she felt it was worth it.

OTSUKIMI
It was a wonderful night under the moon last Thursay at the Aroretum. We arrived late, AS USUAL, but didnt let it damper our night. We watched the big and beautiful harvest moon rise up about the horizon as we drove eastbound to get there. Once there we made our way to the big and full floating moon surrounded by happy voices, applause and music. It was nice to take some time and lay out on the grass. Chie really really really loved the music and harp player. With her piano experience she knew every note played. I watched as she hummed along with it swaying her head, Im sure remembering old times and causing her brain to tap into all that is there, just waiting to be found again. Then came the Haiku session where we all spent time racking our brains to come up with one. Not too easy for us even though we were given several excellent examples by other visitors. 5 - 7 - 5 , statement about the season. Stumped us for a while but we did manage to muster one up each and for Sheila our assisstant who motivated us all to help her come up with one for her. Unfortunately we ran out of time to share it with you all. Once we got it , we played with it, or rather Chie and Akiko did until it made fun of me ,,, maybe, ,,, I got a little lost with all the renditions, so you will have to ask them if they remember.
Another wonderful evening to say the least.

FOREVER AND A DAY

2007-09-14T16:56:00.000-05:00

Forever and Day --

'''' ''' ' ,,, ,, , is just how long it feels like Chie has been in clinic. She wants so desperately to get out and has such a hard time dealing with others leaving before her when she knows that they arrived after her. She was beginning to wonder, would she ever get out? Well, it appears her prayers have been answered and the pot of gold at the end of the rainbow is in sight!!! A date was set and looks like she'll be comin home for Christmas!!!

Still skeptical she doubts whether she will REALLY be coming home or not, since she was told september once before, , , but forgetting we were fighting to stay longer -+-__+-. Well, it sounds great but opens a whole new set of worries for both her and myself. She knows I cannot take care of her all by myself so it is a bit frightening as we search for a plan. It's too early to say what we will do right now but we will be gathering ideas , resources, making adjustments to the house in preparation.

Japanese Cuisine

IN other recent news, Chie lost 7 pounds last month and her cholestorol and tryglycerides are normal!!!!!!!!! She dropped down from 130 to 123 pounds and for the first time in four months, she has her lab work back to normal and lost a fair amount of weight. The nursing director was really happy with the change the dietician had made to her diet.. you know, she lowered the carbs, and cut back on butter, and of course switched from sugar to splenda ??? -I about fell out of my chair with laughter!!! I had visions of the last meal we ate that Sheila cooked, It was Deep Fried Chicken quarters, Macaroni and Cheese, and spinach, Juice for Chie, Coke for me, NOW, HOW COULD ONE NOT LOSE WEIGHT EAT SO HEALTH CONCIOUSLY?? I wasnt about to let anyone take credit for all your great cooking. I explained it was due to the fact that she was back on her old diet of japanese food and how we can take one bento and make dinner breakfast and a little bit of lunch out of it. "Theyre really healthy people" I told her. She thought and finally agreed that 7pounds seemed a bit much for the changes made by the dieticians, Especially since we have never followed it, nor has anyone else. So, to give credit where it is due,, I thank you all for you hard work and great cooking, keep it coming!!! She loves it!!!!!!!! I can do curry rice ,, but you can only eat so much cury rice, you know? I really do appreciate it, from Akiko at Ichijo to Sakamoto at TEI TEI, and all in between , keiko, keiko, keiko, akiko, megumi, kazuko, kunisawa (A true bachelor's bento, hope your wife made it home safe, lol),
THANKS THANKS THANK YOU

Weve been to the dog park a couple of times on the weekend. She still just loves to hold and hug them and love them. Everybody at the dog park is very kind to us when we go talking and showing us their dogs. We saw all kinds , baby pomeranian, jack russells, mini greyhounds, catahoola, , , its really nice for her to see them. so thank you to the owners of Connor, patches, cinnamon, carlo, Winston etc... I wish we could get one but still , chie is wanting an AKITA,, wonderful ,, what are they the biggest dog known to man?? Well, maybe we will see one on the 30th at the fall festival, then she can see its too big!!!! Lets hope,, Never know,,, Hope to see you all there and as always,
We are indebted for your Support
Chie

Recent Activities

2007-09-05T00:18:00.000-05:00

RECENT NEWS

Chie has enjoyed seeing everybody when you stop by, and when you drop off japanese treats. Finally, I can go a week without hearing Okonomiyaki. I thought I was never gonna find anyone to make okonomiyaki!! And the funny thing is, I dont ever remember her eating it much in japan. What has she been up to?? Not a whole lot, visiting with friends during the week and pretty much trying to take it easy on the weekends.

We did have a couple of highlights though. She has been asking to go to a sports event for some time now (that's what inspired the race night), so in the mail she finally received tickets to see the Mariners VS Rangers. We went on Saturday the 25 with hopes to see Ichiro but he was not playing. Saiyaku ne, we did get to see Johjima though and enjoyed ourselves thoroughly. She had peanut, nachos,and a hotdog!!!!! Plus, the Rangers actually managed to pull out a victory!!! It really made her feel good to get out and get to do something big!

She finally got out and helped water the yard as we all pitched in to do yard work. One mowing, one watering and one weedeating. It was group effort and the yard is looking good. Chie did pretty well watering except that she seemed to do much better at watering Yuri and I than she did at watering the grass. No worries though, it was hot enough that we could appreciate the cool water. She also got some time to visit with our neighbor and pet one of the dogs in our neighborhood. Good community activity for her. Her piano is improving as well. She is only doing scales but I am hearing her become more and more focussed each time she tries. Then last Saturday we celebrated our Assistant Sheila's Birthday as she turned 21, AGAIN!!!!! It wasnt much of a celebration but we tried to do what we could. She has been a life saver for us and we are so lucky to have her. We love ya Sheila and thank you for all your hard work. (Chie will be a bride's maid in her wedding this coming march!)

She is a bit depressed still from the extended stay and the constant frustration and difficulties of everyday routines, so we have been laying low on the weekends and taking some time to reflect. It is just so very hard for both of us to peer into our futures and not become overwhelmed with emotions. Chie is tryiing to stay strong and I too for her just as you have for us, Thank You All.

We did all get out in the yard a couple of weeks ago

Writing and Races and Tongue Twisters!!! Aug 20, 2007

2007-08-21T00:18:00.000-05:00

We made it through another wonderful weekend. We were not quite as busy this weekend, so had some time to kick back and relax. We had a nice sit down dinner Friday while her roomate prepared to head home for the weekend. Chie was worried that her roommates two little girls might be hungry so she invited them to try some pasta, and sure enough, they were hungry. We sat and visited with her husband about tatoos. He has several and while Chie thought they were interesting I think she is going to hold off before getting any of her own.
Chie called Friday night late to tell me that she wanted to write this weekend!!!! I told her that it would not be a problem and set up her writing station so it would be ready for her saturday. When she began writing Saturday she was absolutely amazed at how much she had improved. She wrote her name so well, I wish you all could have seen the smile on her face. It was worth a million dollars!!! She was so happy and proud of herself it made us both cry a little, this time I can gladly say, they were tears of happiness! After napping she felt bored and was giving me the third degree about how we had not done anything (perhaps she didnt realize she had only been up for two hours between naps). Never the less, she sought excitement and was ready to do something. I quickly finishe up the lawn and ran to get Sheila and we were off the Devil's Bowl Speedway to watch some races! It was a good time and lots of excitement since we were sitting front row! Unfortunately our good friend Brad aka "Scooter DeVille" was not racing but we will catch him next time. It was a late night and we didnt make it in till after eleven. Sunday was filled with more naps after brunch at Po Melvins. Our waiter who always took care of us no longer works there and Chie is none to happy about it. I get drilled every Sunday about where he is and why he isnt there etc....Now she isnt sure we need to go every Sunday. She is a character. Thankfully, she was able to get Udon, her favorite food, at Keiko's that evening. We had a great dinner there and enjoyed Rajit's delicious cooking. We had a lot of fun doing her Japanese tongue twisters before showering up and hitting the sack. If you are visiting you may want to do a few with her (they are on her lamp in her room).
We will update you soon.
And I will post some pictures of her with our family and friends!
DAVID

***It has been a bit of a difficult time for Chie recently as she sees her new friends leave from clinic it makes her feel a lonely. It is often difficult to see the progress you are making. This tends to make her feel sad as though she is not progressing. She has a difficult time realizing that most of the clients are only discharging because there insurance benefits are being cut. I try to explain that most are only moving on to another rehab facility somewhere else closer to there homes, as many come from all over the USA to be here, and that she is very lucky to be able to stay. When I explain this to her it makes sense but she forgets and gets down on herself. We are working on controlling our emotions and carrying ourselves with grace and dignity in a lady like manner in counselling. We want her to realize that she is a beautiful person and when sitting calm and composed, you would never know that she had been in an accident. It is very important that she see that she is a beautiful woman with a beautiful heart not just to others but to herself. Chie has been putting up a fair amount of opposition to this idea so we could use your help. When you see her or send letters perhaps you could mention some of her qualities that make her the unique individual she is. We would greatly appreciate it and it would really help to boost her spirits.

Donations

2007-08-09T11:16:00.000-05:00

******DONATIONS******

Currently, All those contributing to Chie's recovery will receive a TAX CREDIT.

Donations are a real life line for Chie's recovery

As many of you know, much of Chie's recovery has been made possible by her supporter's donations. The insurance and medical bills have reached levels that exceed the families income. Without the support and kindness of individuals like you the cost of Chie's recovery simply could not be afforded by the family.

Donations may be made in conjunction with the ICC

Make Checks Payable to : The ICC

Memo(BOTTOM LEFT OF CHECK): Write "FOR CHIE BLUMENTHAL"

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We Thank You All For Your Continued Support and

Look Forward to Seeing You Soon!

Legs 100 % Healed!!!

2007-08-09T01:06:00.000-05:00

Well , we visited our doctor in Ortho. She was super happy to see new pictures of Chie's once broken leg that is now 100% healed. She was pleased that it had healed so wellsaid the leg looks fantastic and all the pins are in alignment. Chie was happy to hear it.
Chie has done really well over the last month and improved in lots of areas. She rode the bike for 2.3 miles and was able to stand unsupported for over 5 minutes! This is a really big accomplishment for her therapists were very proud of her. She is getting stronger and stronger with her walker everyday.

AUG. 5 2007

2007-08-05T12:46:00.000-05:00

Well, its been a long and trying week. Chie had to deal with a lot of emotions this week as two of her friends from the clinic were discharged. One was a friend who she really took under her wing and was trying very hard to comfort and encourage during these early stages of his recovery. We have been working on controlling our emotions and realizing the affect it has on others when we have outbursts. This week was a real test with two people being discharged. At times it was more than she could handle. We had to leave early a couple of times and redirect to different activities to avoid upsetting ourselves and others, sorry if we missed anyone visiting.
On a lighter note, we were able to have some great fun this week as well. Chie enjoyed some fresh pears brought by her roommate from her house in east Texas as well as some blueberry muffins made with fresh blueberries her friend Akiko picked in Tyler Texas. She enjoyed all the bentos this week brought by friends and says thank you so much to everyone for the Oishi bentos.
Friday she was suprised by a visit from her Sister in law and niece and nephew!!! We are spending the weekend visiting with them. Chie immediately noticed our niece, age 13, was struggling for attention at this difficult age and named her "Princess for the Day." Chie told me it was important for her to feel special and so we did what she wanted for the afternoon. We took her to the Japanese market and got her some of her favorite foods that she cant find on the plains of New Mexico where she is now living. Then we went for a shopping spree at the mall in search of some Black Converse shoes that she has wanted. Our niece found her shoes and Chie managed to find a beautiful new dress she just had to have for her big night of Karaoke with Akiko and Keiko. After a quick nap two old friends dropped by and fired up the grill for a BBQ. Chie was excited about eating steak and veggies while visiting with her old friends.
Saturday night we met Keiko and Akiko at the Karaoke box and sang sang sang. Chie was really suprised at just how many songs she could remember. It was a great night and we thank you girls for taking us. It really brought back a lot of memories for Chie and good times she used to have. She is eager to go again soon!!!
Today we had our usual breakfast at Po' Melvins and then showed our family around Chie's apartment. Chie really enjoyed explaining all of her pictures as a child to our niece and sister. She said she really noticed now, the value of pictures and said she wants more of them from when she was little. Now we are down for a nap before showing the family around one of her favorite places , the dog park at Whiterock Lake.
Thank you all for your continued support and we will upadate again soon.
DAVID

EYE SURGERY

2007-07-30T08:59:00.000-05:00

Chie did have eye surgery earlier this month and is doing just fine. It was a thirty minute procedure to straighten her right eye. There were no complications and the doctor said he was very pleased with the results. Her eye is cleared up now. Her eyelid droops down a bit still and we will look at having cosmetic surgery to fix it in September. Sorry not to have told you sooner but the surgery came fast, about two weeks from our first Doctor visit!!

CHIE UPDATE JULY 26

2007-07-28T00:18:00.000-05:00

HI Everyone,
I know its been a long long long time since I have had a chance to email but Im finally getting to it. Summer has not been very relaxing at all, but we're alive and Chie is healthy so I can't complain. She has really enjoyed the rally of support brought on by the Japan America Society's story in their newsletter that our friend Keiko wrote (arigatogozaimasu) and the ICC. Thank you all sooooo much. She is happily back on her native diet the majority of the time and enjoys visiting with all her friends both new and old. I remember when one of her first visitors called to come see her. Chie had never met her before but was so excited. she hung up the phone and told me her friend was coming, then repeating "my friends" to herself several times louder and happier everytime she said it. Its times like that when you see just how much it means to someone to have a friend when they are down. PRICELESS!
She remains in good spirits and continues rehab everyday putting forth nothing less than 100%. Progress seems slow at times but little by little we will get better. ONe of her doctors gave her a real boost by pointing out all she can do now like, sit up straight, calm, relaxed, controlling her tremors in the arm and head, her improvement in speech and memory, movement in the left arm and hand, and strength throughout her arms and body. These were all things she could not do when he first saw her in late December. We were both pleased to hear that. He went on to say that when he first looked at her case he felt discouraged to see the multiple tears and sheering to her head, but now looking at her progress he felt it was actually a good thing. If all the damage was to one area and it did not heal then there would be notning for him to do. It would be a done deal. Seeing her now it appears that all of her injuries are healing to some extent so the potential for a better recovery is there. Unfortunately, our brains are not known for speed when healing. All of our brains heal at the same rate and its a slow process, 12 - 18 months usually, but we are still seeing good signs and improvement so we keep working to see just how far we can take it.
She still has her selfless character and strong desire to work as she helps and counsels others at the clinic every chance she gets in an effort to provide them with a little comfort and assurance that they are alright and will get better. In addition to that she has begun tutoring one of her friends in Japanese. He is an outstanding student and makes Chie very proud each week. In return he helps to get her playihg the piano again. Its quite discouraging for her to go from her level of play prior to the injury to where she is now. We're hoping this will kind of wake up that left arm and hand, finger memory the pianists call it. She is starting with scales and did much better last week than the week before so let's hope for best!
I will get back with another update soon.. IM new tothis blog bit and am still learning so I hope to update you all more often .. Ill finish soon , but now i have to run to Chie's and suprise her! Talk to you soon and thanks forall your continued support
DAVE

HERE WE GO

2007-07-23T13:23:00.000-05:00

1, 2, 1, 2 ARE WE ROLLIN' ???
WELCOME EVERYBODY
TO
CHIE'S NEW BLOGSITE!!!!!
HELP CHIE AS SHE BATTLES BACK DOWN THAT LONG AND TEDIOUS ROAD TO RECOVERY
FOR GATHERED SUPPORT, UPDATES, AND NEWS

Well, after much time and much support from the ICC (Thanks) I am going to give this a try in hopes that it will allow me to update everybody with a little more frequency than my current rate of update.

A MUCH DESERVED THANK YOU
Let me begin by saying thanks to so many of you for all your help and continued support without which Chie and I would not have made it this far. We are just over the year mark and when I think back one year ago and who was there and who helped me keep my sanity, gave me direction and the support to push on at a time when I was so lost and overwhelmed with shock and emotions. I break out in tears just thinking about it but do want you to know it is not forgotten; Our families here and in Japan. My sister,Bao and Steph for all the long evenings at the hospital, Trotta and Mel, Lauren, Bubba, Kev, Rosetta and all the McCreas, Catherine for the essential, Mike at Campissis, Bill from After Hour Services for home repair and making sure we had light and could use the bathroom when relatives flew in, Delton for the advice, Friends old and new for the long hours on the phone in the middle of the night, from BT up on the Alaskan North Slope, Timmy way down under in Oz, Petey in England, JOJO in Osaka and frends all over the world thanks for the ear, The Richland Family Noelli, David, Bao, Kathy, Flor, Pablo, Babs, Mary, Diane, All, all of you at Richland for the auction and all that you do, the Aschners /Sitrins for the many wonderful meals and rock solid support, Kayla for gathering support, OPAQUE for the musical support Nicholly Craig thanks, Ricky for the clothes, Hiroe & Aunt Pammy for the long luch visits to Kindred, All KINDRED STAFF and DR PERIJOC, the stars at Silberstein, Debbie and Ron at the STring Bean, Tamako and Ino at Ino, Masudasan Sensei for Osechi Riori and her students Keiko and Akiko for giving us our second wind, Japan America Society, Akiko & YurIka at Ichijo for our steady japanese diet (anta ichiban yo), Kazuko and ... uh.. ger.. main... RAYMOND! Keiko Shimoida, the kind staff at Po' Melvin's, Chubby's, Sheila Mayfield, Ernestien, New Orleans & Laura at CNS who are worth their weight in gold, Tim & Kaori, Jean Antoine, Yukimi, Noriko, Barry& Jun, Yasushi, Yoshi, Saori at Develop, Ayami, Gonchan, Hattasan. the Coker's, Julia Keith, Tim & Kaori and all continuing to come, AND the ICC for getting this going and giving us a breath of hope.
There is really no way for me to put in words how much it means and how greatful I am for all that you have and are doing for us. As I have said before, it is the kinds hearts of people like you that we owe this recovery to. You are our heroes. We are eternally indebted to you for making this possible.
Thank You,
David Blumenthal.

1, 2, 1, 2 ARE WE ROLLIN' ???

2007-07-23T12:57:00.000-05:00

WELCOME EVERYBODY

CHIE'S NEW BLOGSITE!!!!!

HELP CHIE AS SHE BATTLES BACK DOWN THAT LONG AND TEDIOUS ROAD TO RECOVERY
FOR GATHERED SUPPORT, UPDATES, AND NEWS