Message from CHIE!!!

Hello, how are you doing? Its still cold out, isn't it?? I found its still hard to wake up in the morning and I found its still so easy to go to bed at night. Therapy is hard but its working I hope. We have been using our arms a lot last week and the week before. I hope this will help me to move my left and right hand more precisely.

HOme is the best!!! home sweet home! As you know I can tell any small selfishness to David , to my papa, so its the best. Sorry but I cant go back to apartments now cause home is so nice. I talk to my old friend still. His name is Ralph. Ralph is a very unique guy. He's my best friend. I love him and he loves me. He went back to his home town but we talk on the phone. He says he will call me back soon, but he calls me back later, but I understand so I dont say anything.

To other people, I need help still. I still need help a lot still, a lot. I need help in English and Japanese both. It's a long way to go back the way I was, but I want to. I want to tell David, do this; Dont do that! but I try not because I am sick. I want to say it more more more , but I cant. I miss everybody who came to see me at the apartments. Its ok , just come to say hello or goodbye, or see you later and that gives me power to wait to see you next time.

And all the therapist, Thank you so much and all the people, Thank you so much.

2 weeks ago, I went fishing to Lake Texoma. I met Captain Tim!! It was very fun!!! For the first time, I caught a fish!! and captain Tim took us everywhere on lake Texoma, and I took fish and Capatain Tim took fish, and Dave took fish and we were all happy!!!! I met Captain Tim's new dog, Beau. Beau is a brilliant dog. Shadow is a friend of Beau, and Shadow was there but since Beau is here Shadow kind of goes around. If anybody finds Shadow please let us know. Please call this number 469 363 6611, and I will be home after 4:30 and I can answer the phone. I need to have a dog and I want to haave a dog. Yesterday we went to the dog park with Keiko who has Sakura, which is my old friend and with Maiko, my new friend who has pepper, and they are soooooo cute!!!! Unfortunately Rajit was at work with Megu. According to Keiko Megu is only good for Rajit. Megu is not a social dog. I dont believe it but mama says so so maybe. Anyway, we had a great time and we came back to our place and pepper and Sakura and their mama's and me came back to our house and we drank tea and talked. that was very fun. See like that, you dont have to stay long at all and it was an excellent time. That is what I call fulfilling life. Last Saturday too, I went to eat with Richan. We ate Peruvian food and it was excellent too. Thank you Richan. and Curry too, it was sooo good , thank you Akikochan.

LIke this please come everybody , please come to say hello , you dont have to spend a long time just to say hello. If you have any questions you are welcome to call my house or Dave's cell phone (above). Thats about it, Thank you very much

CHIE

Thanks everyone, We are getting used to being at home now. Chie is adjusting to the longer days and is doing pretty well. She does miss seeing everyone so I want to invite all the Dallas people to visit if you like during the week. I know its a bit far for those of you way out west and I love and thank you all so much for your visits and the food you brought Chie. Its so very important to her recovery to have friends and speak in both English and Japanese. So, If you live near 635 & Northwest Highway and would like to come see Chie please contact me at the number above and we can set something up!!

Take Care and we will see you soon,

DAVID

AND WERE BACK Sorry for the delay

CHIE IN THE HOUSE

Well, I know it has been a while but we are back and continuing to keep you all up to date with Chie's progress. I am sorry for the delay. It has really been a handful keeping up with everything here at home. I have just been so busy helping to teach Chie all the new surroundings, routines, and just getting used to being at home, along with cooking, dishes, laundry, cleaning, prepping lunches / breakfast, appointments, work, etc.... that I have not been able to get the blog going. Now I hope to get back in the rythm and get you all updated.

Despite being transferred out of inpatient at the apartments for whatever reason, I have no idea!, Chie is doing really well here at the house. Happy to be home and happy to have gained some independence to do things on her own. We have tried to get the house fixed up as best we could for her return. We would like to especially thank DARS (Disabled and Rehabilitative Services) Margo and Kay as well as Chet and Cindy at Home Ready Rental for getting approved and finding so much of what we needed. She has a whole room with all her lotions and clothes on shelves where she can see and reach them. She prepares her clothes for the next day by herself every evening. She has all of her lotions and chip chap in order and put where she wants it to be kept. The bathroom door is widened and hand rails are installed, so she no longer has to wait on someone to take care of business. We have snacks out where she can reach them and keep food and drinks on the lower shelves of our fridge so she can get to them if she is hungry. She has even been able to use the microwave to warm something to eat up for herself. She loves the shower where she can sit until the hot water runs out. We use hands free two wave radios to communicate when we are not in the same room . She just starts talking and I can hear and respond to her every need, and they can be demanding at times!!! We are getting different stations in order so she will have a variety of things to occupy her time if she is left alone.

Now she commutes from the house and I am happy to say that she no longer uses her wheelchair when she goes to therapy!!!! Her goal this year is to walk so we decided that is just what she will do. She takes her walker to school and reserves the wheelchair for weekends and the house!!! Oh, and she did walk when we went to see the doctor. She wanted to show her what she could do, and she made sure to shake hands with her left, rememberring the day when nobody thought she would ever use her left arm again. Yeah Chie!!! Its a longer day for her and we were all worried about how she would endure, but she has managed pretty well. She has had a few slips and a couple of falls. They about scared me to death. She said she was ok though. I just cant be there 24/7. I watched her take the first fall while cooking dinner. She just got mixed up on how to transfer and stood up, lost her balance, and down she went. We are really working hard on stressing safety. One of her deficits is the ability to distinguish safe and dangerous situations. She is learning but has attempted a few not so favorable tasks. Twice while waiting for our driver she has gotten up out of her chair all by herself and walked to the door. The first time I caught her, she was halfway out the door!!!! I was shocked but she just smiled and said " I didnt think you would check. I am waiting for the driver." She got in TROUBLE for that one. The other time she walke to the door just in time to realize that our door opens inward and she cant back up in the walker! OOPS!! I try to stress the safety but not be too harsh, I have to respect the "FIGHT" in her and try to understand that she wants to do so much more. She really is doing a lot of work at home and just doesnt realize it. She wears herself out and has been crashing pretty early. This has begun to frustrate her and makes things harder for us to get dinner and bathed and ready for bed. We will see what we can do to fix that.

She misses many of you who came to see her at the apartments. We thank you so much for all you do and did for us. She hopes you will come visit soon to our house, but she knows it is far for you and understands if you cant come very often. We will be here and you are always welcome anytime you can make it.
Thanks and will talk to you all soon.

Happy New Year!!!!!!!

HAPPY NEW YEAR
TO EVERYONE
I want to wish everybody a very VERY Happy New Year for every single person. I wish this to be wonderful new year for this coming new year 2008. My goal is to be able to walk this year without a walker, ,,so I hope that lots of people support me continuously too. Thank you to everyone who is supporting me.
Thank you very much for coming to the party, It was the nicest time I have ever had. Its the nicest party I have ever had. I thank you so much. I hope everyone had fun too. I really hope you had fun. I had fun too. I hope you will come and see me now that you know where I live, not only the people who came to the party but everyone can come see me. I wish I could say to every single person "Thank you sooo much. I had a wonderful time. " You can come see me anytime. Thats all now. Bye Bye
Chie

Chie also wants to send a very special thank you to all of her supporters from Mrs. Slabaugh's class way up in the Buckeye state of Ohio for cheering her up today. Your cards brought smile after smile to her face. They are very special and she will keep them always!

Thanks everyone for coming to the party Saturday. You made the day special for Chie. Chie had an excellent time. She was soooooo happy to see so many of you. She got a little worried at first and was telling me that "it would be Great if even one person came." It was very cute. We do thank you all for coming and hope to see you soon.
Happy New year!!

MERRY CHRISTMAS / video message!!

MERRY

CHRISTMAS

CHIE AND I WISH YOU A VERY MERRY CHRISTMAS!!! WE HAVE TRIED TO RECORD A HOLIDAY MESSAGE FOR YOU ALL SO I HOPE THIS WORKS.

PARTY TIME !!!!!!!!

PARTY TIME ! ! ! ! ! !

COME ONE, COME ALL,

NEXT SATURDAY,
DECEMBER 29TH
FROM 2PM to 8PM

NOW THAT CHIE IS HOME WE WANTED TO TAKE THIS OPPORTUNITY TO SAY "THANK YOU" TO ALL OF YOU, FOR ALL THAT YOU HAVE DONE FOR US.

PLEASE JOIN US AT OUR HOUSE:
1121 ATLANTA DR.
GARLAND TX 75041

CHIE IS VERY EXCITED ABOUT GETTING TO MEET MANY OF YOU, SOME FOR THE FIRST TIME! WE HAVE BEEN SO BUSY THAT WE HAVEN'T BEEN ABLE TO GET OUT AND SEE EVERYONE FOR A WHILE AND CHIE IS HAVING TROUBLE KEEPING UP WITH THE CARDS AND REMEMBERING EVERYONE AND EVERYTHING (ME TOO). WE WOULD LOVE FOR EVERYONE TO DROP BY AND SHOW HER JUST HOW MANY PEOPLE ARE BEHIND HER AND PULLING FOR HER, SO PLEASE DROP BY AND SAY HELLO, GRAB A DRINK, HAVE SOMETHING TO EAT, AND SPREAD SOME HOLIDAY CHEER. FEEL FREE TO BRING A DISH IF YOU LIKE.

RSVP AT CHIE118@HOTMAIL.COM

WE LOOK FORWARD TO SEEING YOU SATURDAY

LET'S GO HOME!!

HOME SWEET HOME

TONIGHT TONIGHT,,

IM ON MY WAY




IM ON MY WAAAAYYYY.....

WE FINALLY MADE IT!!!!

AFTER A LONG AND TIRING YEAR AND A HALF, WE CHIE FINALLY RETURNS HOME! ITS SEEMED STRANGE LEAVING HER APARTMENT AFTER ALL THE TIME WE SPENT THERE. THINKING BACK ON ALL THE MEMORIES WE HAVE HAD THERE, ROOMATES, RA'S, BBQ'S, THE FIRST TIME SHE TRANSFERRED FROM HER CHAIR TO HER BED, KARAOKE, ETC... WE ARE GREATFUL FOR ALL THE HELP AND HARD WORK EVERYONE PUT IN FOR US. WE WILL MISS THE FRIENDS WE HAVE MADE THERE AND WILL KEEP IN TOUCH. MOST OF ALL, I THINK WE WILL MISS OUR FRIEND SHEILA. SHE AND CHIE HAVE SPENT THE LAST TWO DAYS CRYING TOGETHER AND HOLDING EACH OTHER AS THEY LOOKED BACK OVER ALL THEY HAVE BEEN THROUGH TOGETHER. SHE WAS A TRUE BLESSING AND HAS BECOME FAMILY TO US. WE HOPE TO SEE HER OFTEN.



WE CLOSE ONE CHAPTER OF OUR LIVES

AND OPEN ANOTHER.


HOME......

HOW SWEET IT IS ....

***CHIE IS HELPING ME WRITE THIS AND SHE WANTED TO SEND A SPECIAL MESSAGE TO EVERYONE,****

"THANK YOU FOR HELPING ME UP TO NOW. I REALLY, REAAALLLLYYYY APPRECIATE IT. I WILL BE AT MY HOME NOW SO PLEASE HELP ME CONTINUOUSLY AND COME TO OUR HOME. I GO TO HOME BUT THAT DOESNT MEAN I FULLY RECOVERED. I STILL CANNOT WALK AND I STILL CANNOT, LIKE, SEE PERFECT, OR EAT WITHOUT HELP. THEREFORE, KORE KARAMO DOZO ONEGAIITASHIMASU."

PS. "HOWEVER, IF THERE IS ANYTHING I CAN DO,, PLEASE ASK ME OR LET ME KNOW AND IM HAPPY TO HELP YOU."
THANK YOU

CHIE

Japanese Fall Festival / Akimatsuri (Dallas)

AkiMatsuri

The Japanese Fall Festival (Dallas)

** catching up **

Going way back to the Japanese Fall Festival. Chie really had a great time seeing everybody, Aya, Kat, Katsu, Keiko, Akiko, Ino, Tamako, Hiroe, Yasuko, Nakahashi, Yoshiko, Chika and just everyone. We arrived around noon trying to let her rest so she would not need to leave to early, or so I thought. She was so excited seeing everybody and eating all the good foods, for some it was her first time to see you since the accident and though it got a litte emothional at time it was very good for her. I figured she would be ready to go by around 2-2:30pm so I didnt purchase any raffle tickets like we normally do. I asked her if she was ready to go but she said "no no, we have to stay for the raffle." Two and half hours later she had finally had enough and was ready to go about 4:30pm.. She was tired and worn out just from trying to process all the emotions from the day. We thank everyone we met and helped us out during the day. We got some pictures and I think im going to let them do the talking for us on this. .

ENJOY.......